If you were dating a christian woman and she didn't want to have sex till she was married, would you wait for her or would you dump her and hook up with another woman who would have sex with you before marriage?
2006-07-30 10:48:07 · 25 answers · asked by I ♥ Kurt Cobain 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Ladies can answer this too! :)
2006-07-30 10:48:59 · update #1
My wife and I didn't have sex until our wedding night.
We were married 2 years and a month after we met.
God has supernaturally blessed us.
I recommend abstaining from sex before marriage for all Christians.
2006-07-30 10:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know it sounds and feels important to wait until you are married, but I think it can be a bad idea. It has ruined alot of marriages because of incompatibiliy. When people first start having sex, it is natural to want to try it with others and that is what normally happens. That's truth for me. But I'm not saying waiting is wrong either. You have to communicate.
2006-07-30 17:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would depend on if the man was a christian as well.
I think most christian men would wait til marriage IF the woman wanted the same thing.
However, I am scepticle if a non-christian man would wait.
2006-07-30 17:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really loved the girl enough to want to marry her then I would also respect her wishes. Might bring the marriage forward though.One serious point though. I would need to know that she would be completely free of this attitude after marriage. Sex is a normal healthy activity so I would expect her to be free with me after marriage.
2006-07-30 17:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by quatt47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump her but that is because of my belief system. If you are with someone who shares your values then he will not try and guilt you into having sex. This is somewhat of a loaded question because I would never date a christian women for the reason you site.
2006-07-30 17:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date a Christian woman
2006-07-30 18:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on a lot of things. Can she tolerate my faith? I am an Occultist. Is she willing to put up with a stubborn soul who follows what he believes? Is she capable of forgiving me when I do something wrong? Is she geniunely in love with me, Or is she gold digging?
I could go forever. If it was between only the things above, and she could tolerate me as I am, I will gladly wait. If she is not worth my time, I will move on.
Hails,
Silence
2006-07-30 18:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Silent One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe I could wait with her. But my hormones aren't raging like they were as a teen, but I was not a reborn Christian back then either. As you grow older, you will come to realize that a relationship built on just sex will never last.
2006-07-30 17:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by stullerrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way I'd be dating a christian woman is if I didn't know she was christian.
And I doubt we'd be dating at all, too many differences in the way we view the world.
Sex wouldn't be the issue, religion would be.
2006-07-30 18:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by bobkgin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not looking for marriage yet, so that would be bad. But I would get to know the girl before I got serious enough to where breaking up would hurt her. If a girl is that strongly religious, we would not work, because I am atheist.
2006-07-30 17:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋