My bf and I have been dating for about a month but he lives in california. he never calls me and im not allowed to call long distance so i cant call him. my friends sometimes call him for me and tell him to call me but he never does. he tells me that he will and then doesnt. I asked him to send me some pictures of him and he said that he didnt have a reason to. that really hurt me. does anyone have any advice as to wat i should do?
2006-07-30 10:36:38 · 22 answers · asked by horse_luver_wyo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And you call this poor shlub your boysfriend? He isn't doing ANY of the things a boyfriend does. He sounds more like a guy you met once and became attracted to hm, however he is not nearly as enamored with you as you are with him. I suggest someone closer to home that actually likes you, it is clear this guy couldn't care any less for you. Sorry.
2006-07-30 10:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. Where do I start. I think that this guy is just a dirt bag. He will not send you pics. Well here is my advice I know it may be a little hard but play his game back. Tell him you do not need to waste your time on a long distance piece of crap and he can either shape up or get lost. Long distance relationships are hard enough withoutr this stress. Or like I said do not send him pics do not call him much. My grandpa always said love someone set him free if he comes back hes yours then do not let go again. I hope this helps.
2006-07-30 10:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by SADGIRLOH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't give you anything you deserve as a girlfriend, so why are you so willing to devote energy to this guy. He doesn't care about you, so move on. Think about it... If he were here, there's no way you would put up with that bullshit, so it shouldn't cut it if he's not. He's not here, but that's not your fault. If he can't fulfill the role of the man in your life, then it's as simple as that.
When a person can no longer, (or has never been able to), do their job, they get fired. You need to get you a Donald Trump comb over, take a picture of yourself pointing at the camera and email it to him with big red title, "YOUR FIRED!"
You don't need help with your bf, this isn't a repair job; what you really need is a new car altogether.
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2006-07-30 10:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um break up? If hes not willing to call you dont bother. Move on and get a life. Secondly you asked him to send you pictures? Do you even know this guy? Or is it one of those things you met him on line and for all you know he could be some 40 year old pervert? You should really know who ur talking to b4 you become bf/gf with them.
2006-07-30 10:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by luv2bactin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance rarely works unless there is some form of serious committment. He may have already begun to move on. It's advisable for you to do the same. By all means, don't keep each other in the dark about this.
2006-07-30 10:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read what you wrote you'll see that, that kind of stuff hurts. And for you to keep the long distance relationship going will be crazy on your behalf. So baby girl tell your friends to help you let him go and then find yourself someone that's much more deserving of you!
2006-07-30 10:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by *Suga* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now and stop calling him. Do not get in touch with him by any means. He, sadly, is a coward and didn't end the way he should have. Move on. There are more guys for you. No need to get stuck to a guy won't give you anytime.
2006-07-30 11:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun it's hard having a long distance relationship. It sounds like he isn't interested in trying to make it work. You will become stronger within yourself in time, you will eventually get tired of his crap. Why don't you and some friends go out and meet new people.
2006-07-30 10:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone local. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain. If he was thinking about you as much as you do about him, you'd be getting calls, pictures, and letters.
2006-07-30 10:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by voyager21_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not taking seriously your relationship. Stop requesting attention. Even if your friends help you to keep in touch.... get some distance to know the importance from him to you... Honestly
2006-07-30 10:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by leito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋