I'm dating this guy for a couple months & we went out to a bar. Other guys were buying me drinks & trying to dance with me. should I not of accepted the drinks? I made it clear I was there with someone but to the other guys didn't seem to care. my guy seemed a little bothered but didn't really say anything. also his friends were buying me drinks & flirting. i just talked to them but my guy told me it looked like I was flirting. So am I supposed to go out & not talk to anyone or how do I talk to people without leading them on? I'm a very friendly person
2006-07-30 10:16:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something to add-- my guy was deejaying so he wasn't around for half the night. If could of sat right next to him I would of
2006-07-30 10:24:03 · update #1
I kind of have that same problem where I'm just friendly, but my boyfriend thinks I'm flirting. You should just tell him straight up that you love him and you promise you're not flirting.. you're just having a good time and he should to. Make sure you pay attention to him the most though, let everyone know that he's with you and let your boyfriend feel like he's recieving the most attention. Have something you do only with him and nobody else.
2006-07-30 10:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say accepting drinks from strangers in front of your guy is rude. It's like accepting a come-on from them. If it's friends of yours or his you can accept the drink. I wouldn't be flirty on purpose but if it's your personality than you can't help it. Maybe you need to help your guy feel a little more secure about your relationship and then he wouldn't feel insecure about how you act with his friends. He needs to know he is the only one you want.
2006-07-30 17:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by quirkyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just be yourself. If your normally a friendly person keep doing what you were doing. If your boyfriend has a problem with that you can always go out with one of the other boys who were buying you drinks. Also, by letting him see you are desirable by other men, it will make him want you more.
2006-07-30 17:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just politely turn the drink offers down and keep your very friendly manners with your guy and the other female friends. Unless you don't mind loosing your guy and looking like you are loose and easy. I think you know where to draw the line without over doing it.k
2006-07-30 17:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit with your man and make sure that he is there for at least one full night the whole time and he will hear what yall are talking about and ask him to see if its alright and doesnt bother him if you dance with them and if you want to dance you should tell him that he shouldnt be concered because its just dancing not cheating
2006-07-30 17:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy ;-) sounds like he can't take the lead in keeping these guys away from you.
2006-07-30 17:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youre out with him, he should be the one youre talking to. if hes anything like me, he was very jealous.
2006-07-30 17:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard question.....it depends on ur behaviour in that situation.....i hope u dont enjoy in flirting with others while u r with boyfriend
2006-07-30 17:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by master_of_knowledge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL THEM NICELY YOU DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP
2006-07-30 17:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dummy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't accept their drinks.. that's all...
2006-07-30 17:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by The Cowfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋