I am 30 and my boyfriend is 39. We have great sex, we both are very sexual people. But he looses his erection easily. I noticed when he has drinken some Coronas it seems to be better. But the longevity is becoming an issue becuase I am not satisified. He tried different things to get hime aroused and i freely let him do whatever it takes, but his erection still doesnt last very long. How do I approach him about this. I dont want to embarass him or anything like that. But sex is an important part of a relationship and when I want it, I WANT IT.
2006-07-30 10:08:22 · 0 answers · asked by !@#$$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh trust me he knows he has a problem and you need to ask him to go see a doctor about it.
2006-07-30 10:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "lose erection" you mean he ejaculates too quickly? And the beer helps him not to be so excited?
Well, at 39, maybe that should not happen. But, there is always oral sex. And there are dildoes and vibrators. And Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis, which he can get from his doctor.
You two can go get qualified therapy at a sexual function clinic, together, and work on this problem. As long as you talk to him without put-downs, he should not be embarrassed.
2006-07-30 10:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he having an orgasm? If so, it may be partially due to him being overly sensitive, especially to you. Try different kinds of condoms. The Coronas probably help in that they desensitize his body. If he's not having an orgasm he may have an issue "focusing". Getting him out of the normal routine might help.
2006-07-30 10:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you figure out how to approach him about it and see if he can fix it. would you plz email me and tell me how to do the same thing for my husband cuz he is the exact same way. laraldm@yahoo.com is my email
2006-07-30 10:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-30 10:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by beenwiredon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yoga is better 4 sex
2006-07-30 10:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋