becaus he hit me three weeks ago and gave me a nose bleed and everytime he hits me he say its my fault (he smake me in the nose cause i igonred he but he got on my nerves because he was drunk iam kept putting his arms arond me and i hate it when he touches me when hes drunk)
i going in 2 days and iam un steady and scared. i know ive got go i got my mates house to go where i can be safe
but the only thing is he now where i go to sign on(meaning to sign to get paid a week on monday )the reason iam going in 2 days because hes going away in 2 days which is 100 miles away for 2 days so wot iam asking do u think iam doing the right thing
i hope u can understand this
i know i stupid in not going sooner but iam scared but ive got to go this time or i can never get out
2006-07-30 10:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXXX I think you have a lot of courage and I am happy for you that you are getting out of this abusive situation. So many women stay because they are scared, have kids or don't have anyother place to go and subject themselves to years of abuse. They spend lots of time in the hospital, in tears and in pain. This makes them feel bad about themselves and takes away all their pride and self esteem. Even the police getting involved will do the best they can but sometimes that isn't enough when the man is so hard to control. So many women are in prison today for killing their mates because they couldn't take it anymore. I applaud you for leaving. Good luck hun. XXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-30 10:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him as soon as possible!! Once they start hitting you it never stops. I've been through that kind of relationship before. They always say sorry or you made me do it!!
There the ones who need the help not us. No one needs to live like that, life is to short to be unhappy. Get out fast, more fish in the sea that will treat you the way you should be treated. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-30 10:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty extra now as an older guy than whilst i exchange into plenty youthful. I take a catalogue of places i could desire to stop for the errands and a catalogue of the failings that i could desire to purchase. wallet & funds. keys. sunlight hues. cap or hat. cellular telephone. handle or mapquest guidelines if taking the canines then pup bags pup treats the folding pup water bowl Oh, I forgot the spouse.... lol
2016-10-08 12:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and get away. he will never stop. well he could, but its very unlikely if he keeps drinking. i know from experience. leave and dont call him, see him, or ever talk to him again. it has to be a clean break or u will keep going back to him.
2006-07-30 10:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hit you three weeks ago and you are still with him. see if you had left after the first time you wouldn't still be there for him to keep hitting you..
2006-07-30 10:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leave when he leaves. if u try to leave b4 then u might not make it out. and if u do leave before he leaves then he will prolly come look for u and he will prolly find u - if u leave when he leaves he wont even realize ur gone till its too late - u will hopefully b long gone
2006-07-30 10:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by BOSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweep deal
2006-07-30 10:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by austin, austin k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is about time.just dont go back to him because it will happen again.
2006-07-30 10:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off the first time he hit you is when you should have left and not came back duh
2006-07-30 10:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋