I have these two friends, Stephen and Spencer. We're like a Golden Trio, like Harry, Hermione and Ron from the Harry Potter books.I think I like one of them, but I don't want to risk our friendship. Plz Help
2006-07-30 09:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take the chance in risking your friendship, been there done that and we no longer have a friendship.
2006-07-30 09:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the other person. Maybe you can watch his reaction towards you and you might notice that he likes you. Simple things to look for is if he blushes or not. I think (from the boys point of view, even though i'm a girl) that he won't break up with you (friend way or boyfriend way) if he knew you liked him. Just give it a go! But if you really don't want to risk it, try investigating first.
2006-07-30 09:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by CudieQueen9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are under 16 don't rock the boat... just keep them as buddies. But if you are older, especially college age, then test the water a tiny bit and just take it slowly and one step at a time to make sure there might be potential. Talk about life and see where they are going and see if you guys are heading in a similar direction. If you are as good of Friends as you say, you really don't want to kill that if you are too young. If you are a bit older and want to develop a good relationship, then slowly is the key
2006-07-30 09:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by mortilyn77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy, "Hey i got to ask you a question and give me a honest answer, I heard that you like me and i was wondering if its true." Thats how i find out if a guy likes me or not, If he asks why or says no real fast then he likes you, so yeah just let him know that no matter what ya will always be friends!
2006-07-30 09:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by casper077801@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See now that is one of the trickiest tings to deal with. Which one is more important to you. Being friends or going into a realationship, which could risk the friendsip. Just follow what your heart says.
2006-07-30 09:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Haze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know....Get drunk and if the next morning BOTH remember and are happy go for it. If not don't dwell on it and know that it can't work out
2006-07-30 09:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than don`t be friends it`ll last longer
2006-07-30 09:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by me too 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do to love all my friends, i like to go with whomever i liked.
2006-07-30 09:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. For. It.
2006-07-30 09:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are really friends the one who gets left out will understand...................
2006-07-30 09:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Giuseppe Meazza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋