im talkin to my girlfriend on the phone and then out of no where she says "i feel like we have become more distant". I'm a little shocked so i say "well i dunno, for me things have kinda been looking up latley." We talk some more about our relationship (its 7 months and some odd weeks) and i finally ask "are u breaking up with me?" and she says she doesnt know. and that she needs some time to think it over. Is she honestly debating weather to stay with me or not, or is she just using this "thinking time" to think of a way to break up with me?
2006-07-30 09:49:29 · 18 answers · asked by andyt9001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, it's time to roll out of there.
2006-07-30 09:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you need to break up with her first. Tell her you have been doing some thinking, and in light of what she said that her own doubt leads you to believe the relationship is not where it should be. Tell her that it is not healthy for you so you want to move on and be with someone more committed than she. The little ***** will be floored and probably do a 360 and want you back...but...too late.
2006-07-30 16:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she's using the thinking thing to think of a way to break up with you.you need get out of that relationship fast and find someone else.
2006-07-30 16:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she is debating the weather, but she was expecting some serious reaction from you... Maybe you got her bored and she needs a restatement of your enormous love for her... Or maybe she is just feeling you have become distant... Who knows? Talk with her again!
2006-07-30 16:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by kichka_2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really can't tell. She could be pulling something to see if you'll chase after her and pursue her. Or she could just not like commintment. Some girls are tricky that way. I think you guys should talk and you should tell her that if she wants to break up then go for it... but not to leave you hanging! best of luck
2006-07-30 16:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, what I think that means is that she may be leaving her options open to meet someone else. She gives no reason for which you understand for 'thinking' time, or whether she wants to break up with you.
2006-07-30 17:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know for sure but she seems quite confused. I think you should ask her directly and if she needs some time give it to her. Good Luck!
2006-07-30 16:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave, kid. She is either cruel or want's to break up and doesn't have enough guts to say so.
Either way, she's very bad news!
2006-07-30 16:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might of met someone else. Give her space, it's better to find out early than get hurt harder later.
2006-07-30 16:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just using this "thinking time" to think of a way to break up with u sry :( anyway break up with her first!! hehe
2006-07-30 17:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by honney bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋