2006-07-30 09:38:27 · 27 answers · asked by Kristin B 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
No. If there is any question in your mind whatsoever the answer is always no. You will know when and if you want to for sure - Then it will be right.
2006-07-30 09:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by cyndi71mom 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm thinking that you are younger for saying the question the way you did. I will tell you my story in hopes of enlightening you a little more. No one should force your choice, but you most be ready before you consider it. I was 13 when I lost my virginity and I regret how young I was. I wish that I had waited, and even though my first time was with someone I loved I couldn't help feeling dirty like a whore. I felt so ashamed and my mother was very mad at me. The only thing that kept me sane was the fact that the guy I was with truly loved me as I loved him. Having sex has changed my life in some ways. I think about it more and now can't carry a normal conversation with my guy friends. I still love them all and I'm happy that I did it, but at the time I wasn't ready. I was also scared that I was pregnant for weeks after my first time. I wasn't. I hope what ever choice YOU make will be one that makes you happy. If you want to talk and think I can help feel free to say hi to me. I hope I helped you a little. Don't think sex is bad either, it is a wonderful thing when you are ready.
2006-07-30 09:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. How old are you? What are your beliefs? Do you have a spouse? Whatever your beliefs I believe everyone should wait til marriage, it just makes everything that much better. Because of things such as risk of pregnancy, diseases, etc, with people you don't plan on being with for the rest of your life. Plus, having sex is a very emotional & connected thing, it can really hurt your heart to have sex with someone & then not be with them anymore. Oh yeah, & only have sex if YOU are ready for it. Good luck with your decision.
2006-07-30 09:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Lady Beth*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking here, it shows that you are not yet ready to have sex.
Some here will say wait until marriage, some will say to have sex any time, anywhere. You and only you can decide what you believe is right for you.
Depending on your personal religious and moral beliefs, you want to wait until you are ready. It is not something you should allow yourself to be pressured into. You do not say how old you are, but until you are sure of what you want in life, do not do something you may regret!
2006-07-30 09:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by fire4511 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and you will be having sex with your spouse, and only your spouse then, by all means, have sex. If you are not married or thinking of cheating, by all means, don't.
Sex is meant to be the ultimate act of love, communication, bonding and commitment between a man and a woman who have given themselves, in marriage, to each other and no one else. It is not only a physical joining, but also a spiritual, mental and emotional joining. Sex in any other context perverts and degrades what is meant to be a beautiful and meaningful act of love and dedication.
2006-07-30 09:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by bob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you are old enough to handle the responsibility of having a baby. You may know the answer already and if you are asking other people maybe now is not the right time. you need to be ready for anything but ask yourself "Will I be proud of what I'm doing now or in the future?" Good luck in your decision making.
2006-07-30 09:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both mentally prepared for it, go right ahead. Don't worry about other people pushing their anti-sex stuperstitions on you. Do what you feel is right.
2006-07-30 09:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is depending on your sex organ
2006-07-30 09:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make love, not sex.
2006-07-30 09:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Puppy Zwolle 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can handle anything that may result from having sex, i.e. diseases, children...
2006-07-30 09:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋