my boyfriend and i split up for a couple weeks and he talked to another girl on myspace. he swore he wouldnt talk to any girls in that time because i wanted to work the problems out with him and mend our 2 year relationship. when we did get back with eachother, he said he met her one night for about 10 minutes but that they didnt go any where, do anything, etc. he was vague about how much they talked. this was about 2 months ago. she now has contacted me and swears to God that they went out together, etc in that time and has appologized to me. everything she told me they did together was detailed of what he told me he did alone. he swears they didnt go anywhere, etc. who would you believe? and why? forget the fact that we were not together, it was in the past, and all that b.s. i am aware of that. i want an opinion on who is lieing. this girl is giving me a list of people that i can talk to for proof and brandon is saying his word should be enough because i love him... who is true?
2006-07-30 09:31:25 · 4 answers · asked by jessie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is your choice, to believe not. if not, go ahead.
2006-07-30 09:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he is lying. The girl can give you detailed information as to what they did. I think you should investigate what she is telling you. She is giving you names of people you can ask who will confirm her story; talk to those people. I think you know your boyfriend is lying. If you did not think he were you would not have posted this question. You have your doubt and suspicions because the incident sounds very "shady." I honestly think he is lying and if you find proof he is kick him to the curb because he cannot be trusted. You can do better!
2006-07-30 16:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that u should believe either one of them for the simple fact that if they still speak she's gonna help homeboy out...i think that if ur gonna be with him or continue to try to have a relationship with him that u need to forgive him either way because ur relationship is not going to go anywhere if ur bitter with him....realize also that she can be lying b/c she's bitter with him for not wanting her or something like that...people can't b trusted...i honestly think u should come to terms with the situation on ur own and stop trying to investigate something that u can't determine without a doubt...if u believe him then believe him and if u don't just let it go...but either way he shouldn't have gone to c her and no man is gonna go hang out with someone that they ain't tryna cut.....sorry :(
2006-07-30 16:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? Bit retarded, don't believe him sweetie.
2006-07-30 16:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋