calls you & lies everytime saying he wants to be with you & you believe it & then when you have sex he doesnt call anymore.does that mean he just wanted to have sex with you the whole time?
2006-07-30 09:13:38 · 36 answers · asked by nae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u already knew the answer to your question... no sense in accusing him of it either...he will only deny it and say..."baby , but baby i love you and just want to be with you" and then you will say "aww" and he will say, "can we have sex now?" and you will say_____________???? that is the question, what will u say?
2006-07-30 09:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by derek s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup Girlie, i'm sorry to say that you have fallen for this horrible mans trap. Its not unnormal for people to believe what others say.. you've just got to put a hold on your life and not let others take advantage of you because in the end you could really hurt yourself, by getting pregnant or getting infected with a disease of some sort. So i would say next time, make sure you're in a commited relationship before you have sex with someone to make sure that he really means what he says
2006-07-30 09:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much means that. In most cases anyways. Maybe it was a bad sexual experience and he doesn't want to come back. No offense, but you could have just not clicked, or maybe were too easy. Guys like easy girls when they want to get laid, but they don't look to "end up" with girls that are easy.
Try to be independent in the meantime, don't think too much about the ******. Think about what you really like in a guy if you are still "looking" -- maybe write Yeses and Nos down (as far as character traits, qualities). Keep your standards high.
This may help you avoid jerks like this in the future. And, also, don't give it up so soon. If you find yourself falling for a guy, he can wait if he really likes you. You need to take pride in your body and only give it up when you are 100% ready and sure of the guy.
There are safer ways of being sexual. You don't want to end up getting STDs or pregnant by a guy like this.
2006-07-30 09:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I read... sad to say but that was exactly the only thing he wants from you. Anyway, maybe there's something you've done wrong that turned him off or maybe he had done something shameful so he never showed up to you again. Try to talk to him and find out whats the truth, that's the only answer to your question. First of all I don't know him and secondly I'm not like him. Why not try to talk to real men like guys on webdate*com. I bet you won't be questioning here anymore.
2006-08-01 23:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by edz1624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's a jerk who used you. Move on and find someone better who deserves you.
And at least you know now what can happen and you won't let it happen again. Don't have sex with a guy before you've had a talk about being in a committed relationship.
2006-07-30 09:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by it'sjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-30 09:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either that or he just found something in you he didn't like about you. I know some guys that wouldn't go out with a girl who've had sex with them too soon. (No offense) but it could be true. In the end, guys let their sticks do the thinking.
2006-07-30 09:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you got used. Maybe you should go to his house and kick him in the nuts. After that never talk to him again. And next time you should be more careful. There are MANY guys like that.
2006-07-30 09:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by windrunner023 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately darling, he used you. Chalk it up as a lesson learned. If you are angry about it, thenl et the word get out that he sucked in bed and he will beg for another chance to prove different. Its called payback.
2006-07-30 09:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
using u
2006-07-30 09:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all most guys wanted is sex they give you what you want to you believe what they say sorry to hear you fell for it but don't worries ever female dose just move on find somebody you mean what they say their are real guys in this world trust me i found one
2006-07-30 09:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by angeleyes12181@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋