I met the guy off of myspace that lived very close to my house. We met and decied to just see where things went. We never hooked up until 2 months after we first met. We have become REALLY Good friends and spend almost everyday together. I on the other hand have VERY Srong feelings for him. last month we both went back home for vac. When he got back he told me that he had hooked up with his X one night and also another girl. He also Talks to me about 2 girls that like him. we haven't hooked up since we got back, but we mess around almost everytime we are with each other. He told me that he thinks of me as his girlfriend sometime. What the H E L L dose that mean??? What do I do?? I like him so much. Can someone help me out?
2006-07-30 09:05:42 · 17 answers · asked by yourbj_01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to set your bounderies, you have to find out what he wants outta this 'relationship' you can't just let him keep "using" you in away that you may be comfortable with now, but will in the end get hurt.. you can't just let him go around with these other women.. you have to find out where you stand... if you guys are such good friends you should just straight up ask him and if he says that he thinks of you as a girlfriend sometimes, don't take that as an answer because it isnt, what about the rest of the time??? does he just think of you as a girlfriend whenever he wants some good lovin? and than when he wants someone else your just a friend? Thats not right... you really need to get a handle on this... and find out how he really feels about you.. before you get hurt.
2006-07-30 09:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to be friends no strings attached .With out saying anything I would let him know that is fine with you .As long as you are both on the same playing field and that you have other friends that you see also .Guys like to feel they are seeing someone because they want to ,not because they are pressured into it . If he thinks you are having fun with out him and don't care what he does . You will find he will want to spend more of his time with you and not want you to have fun with other guys .The big mistake most people make is trying to pressure some one into doing something .(you can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink , unless he wants to)
2006-07-30 16:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by dollars2burn4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him just that "HELL what does that mean. Are you looking for an exclusive realtionship, obviously he is not. After you find out what he is offering, decide if it is enough for you BEFORE you mess around again. What ever mess around means to you!
Good luck!
2006-07-30 16:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by MrsMagee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using u for a bit of fun as and when he wants
Drop the creep and go find someone who truly wants you.
Good luck
2006-07-30 16:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a relationship with a guy that cheated on you? Are you a glutton for punishment? Don't do it. You'll be better off.
2006-07-30 16:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling of being used should come to you soon. Move on and finsd someone else.
2006-07-30 16:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by bigmonky2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player to me , he told you he was with 2 other women and 2 like him?..if you just want to be a sex toy.stay with it !!, if not get the hell on!!..hes interested in one thing only obviously, ........the choice is yours..hell take it .!as long as you are giving it up
2006-07-30 16:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by donica85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be the one girl in his life, just try to move on. Friends only.
2006-07-30 16:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Joan A. M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the time adn you WILL get over him and find someone who is faithful. Love hurts but time heals.
2006-07-30 16:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by maryjane k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, HE CAN!!! Ask him, don't ask us! No one else but he can tell you what that means and what he feels about you.
He might be trying to get you jealous by talking about those other girls ;)
2006-07-30 16:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by kichka_2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋