im 18 and i havnt got any boyfriend, never had a relation to somebody , never been kissed,never been touched and never hold hands with boys even with my friends (girls....)........do you think its normal??....do i have problem??
2006-07-30 09:03:31 · 21 answers · asked by geez 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kinda cause we are all leading such busy lives we don't even have time to stop and smell the roses anymore if you are still in school try and learn how to hang out even if it makes you late once in a while nuthin wrong with you time is our enemy no time for this no time for that Good Luck!
2006-07-30 09:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Monte 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No its normal.. I'm seventeen and never kissed held hands, or had a boyfriend.. just like most of my friends... but we are all getting really good scholarships .. so we don't care.
But seriously it probably just means you have standards and are waiting for the right person to come along. No problems there.
2006-07-30 16:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by ice_sickle007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't lose sleep over this kind of problem. Not everybody is ready for their first kiss at a young age. I had the same problem as you. I had my frist kiss on my 18th birthday with a girl I fell in love with. I was shy and very embarrassed to kiss her. Maybe you feel that you don't want to kiss a boy that you are not in love with because you want to make your first kiss special. Or perhaps you feel embarrassed kissing a boy or asking a boy to kiss you. When you feel ready to have your first kiss it will happen naturally and you'll never forget it.
Be patient, relax, and enjoy it when it comes.
2006-07-30 16:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known plenty of people who were 18 years old and never had a boyfriend. You're just a late-bloomer, there's nothing wrong with you.
Focus on your own life and just let things come to you - the more anxious you are about starting up your love life, the less likely it will happen.
2006-07-30 16:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by scheindele42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know plenty of people who have never had a relationship with anyone. It's really nothing to feel bad about. Part of it might be that you don't want to rush into anything you're not familiar with, which is understandable, and if you have been trying to date and find someone, but they havent accpeted or won't give you a chance, they're not worth it anyway. Don't let this get you down.
2006-07-30 16:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by TheDude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you absolutely do have a problem.if you try to find out why you can not form relation with people and see the exact reason then you may be cured soon.but if you havent done anything you have mentioned in your question you have a big problem then.hope you get well soon and return to society.
2006-07-30 16:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by abdullah t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is no problem ur probably just very busy all the tme and havent got the time yet Trust Me ur time will come
2006-07-30 17:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by leebeeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're normal... You're just also smart and selective! More young women should have your sense instead of falling into the backseat with every smooth talking Tom, Harry and Dick that comes along.
2006-07-30 16:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think it's a problem. I think you are perfectly normal. Maybe the right guy just hasn't come along. Maybe it just hasn't been the right timing for you. It will happen in time.
2006-07-30 16:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by it'sjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a problem! All these things will come when the time is right for them to come.... Just be patient and don't worry too much about it!
2006-07-30 16:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by marius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋