me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago.
and me and him ..have berelly started talkin again.
we both have feelings for each other.
practically we act like a couplee.
what should i do ?
2006-07-30 08:48:45 · 25 answers · asked by alejandra r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still hve genuine feelings and can work out a solution get back together :) Just make sure u learn from the past and dont repeat the same things. Ensure your ex realizes that and respects your feelings as well
2006-07-30 08:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Examine the reasons why your ex is your EX and not your boyfriend. There has to be some reason for that. Honestly ask and answer for yourself what has changed from the time that the two of you broke up until now. If you think that time changes things, it doesn't, necessarily. Perhaps you and your ex just miss each other because you had become accustomed to being a couple. That's not a valid reason to remain in or resume a relationship. Ask yourself if you backtrack and get back with your ex, will your life be enriched or will you be cheating yourself and him. It hurts to go through a breakup and it appears that neither of you want to walk through your pain. That is inevitable. You have to walk through it because there's no way around it. Distance yourself from him so that you can think with a clear mind and without pressure. Reevaluate what you want in a mate and see if he fits the bill. Be realistic and HONEST. If you want him and he wants you, go for it. If you have doubts, cut him off and move on. You can't be buddies. You need healing time.
2006-07-30 08:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things you could do. I advise you to explore how you truly feel about the situation. If you want to get back together with him, then by all means, go for it. Tell him how you feel. Be completely honest with him as well as yourself. Who knows, he might be feeling the same way. Communication is very important in any relationship. If you two still have feelings for each other, and still acting like a couple, then kick that pride you both might have to the curb and live and love. No one matters in this thing but you and him. Good luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-30 09:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by juan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about what were the reasons that you and him broke up in the first place? Are those problems still there or are they resolved? Also, would you be getting back together with him because it's him you truly have feelings for?...Or is it that you just miss being in a relationship? I think taking some time to think about these issues will help you decide.
Personally, if it were me, I'd wait a little more than 2 months before jumping back in, just to make sure.
Whatever you do, good luck!
2006-07-30 08:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by it'sjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any other case I'd tell you to go for it and just get back together, but the fact that you came here seeking advice suggests that maybe you're unsure about something regarding this relationship. I think you need to list all the reasons why you should AND shouldn't get back together with this guy, and then ask yourself if the relationship really could work.
2006-07-30 08:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Carmenasks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such element as a particular date. it ought to be impressive if that develop into actual. :) each and every relationship comes with an expiry date. does no longer that be proper! yet luckily, i'm satisfied that isnt so. a foul relationship does no longer recommend you'd be desiring to forget the sturdy moments you had with your ex. yet that ought to no longer be the merely reason for you to experience the choose to get lower back with him. merely attempt to seek for techniques to flow on and remember the sturdy situations you spent with your ex. it really is not any longer straightforward for the present individual on your existence. sturdy success. Cheers, SK playstation : I have fond memories of mine even now. After 5 years. :)
2016-11-26 23:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by quero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both like eachother why are you guys apart? Get back together. You obviously both still like eachother. Life is too short. Give the relationship one more chance.
2006-07-30 08:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up and is there someone else in your lives now keep talking if you can answer these questions and like the answers and sometimes ex 's make great friends and bad partners
2006-07-30 08:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THE BREAK UP WAS CAUSE OF SOMETHIN HE'S DONE, THEN ARE YOU SURE YOU'RE READY TO GIVE THIS GUY ANOTHER CHANCE?ARE YOU SURE THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT.BOTH OF YOU SHOULD STAY TRUE TO YOURSELVES.IF YOU LIKE HIM THAT MUCH GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE, JUST DON'T GO THROUGH THE SAME HEARTBREAKING EXPERIANCE. MOVE FORWARDS NOT BACKWARDS.
2006-07-30 08:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by splash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of stuff about this topic at http://www.ladylovelove.com visit and learn to Reignite the romance and relations.
2006-07-30 08:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋