please i need your help immediately. we have been 4 years he didn't trust me and i cant' go anywhere. i am suffering to much. what shall i do.
2006-07-30 08:40:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You have several issues here. Boyfriends don't dictate what you can and can't do. It's a joint decision.
If you haven't given him reason to distrust you, then why be with someone so possessive? If you have given him reason not to trust you, then you need to earn that trust back. It may take a long time, but it is possible.
2006-07-31 06:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's been four years, and he still doesn't trust you, something is wrong. You've given him plenty of time to trust you and it just hasn't happened. If I were in your situation, I'd break up with him. It will probably only get worse. You may love him, but if he can't trust you, it is a lost cause. If you are suffering, and aren't happy in the relationship, and have been this way for this long, I don't think it's going to work.
2006-07-30 08:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by consumingfire783 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey doesn he have a reason not to trust you? If not its best to break up and move on with your life. Life is too short to suffer over a relationship that appears to be doomed. Good Luck
P.S.-There is no way of proving to him that you can be trusted. If he is insecure then you might as well just leave that alone to begin with. It's doing nothing but draging your self-esteem through the mud.---Love yourself!
2006-07-30 08:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that ull are in a relationship and without trust there is no relationship u cant be with someone and not trust him... let him know u dont need any other guy he makes u happy and u chose him for a reason trust isnt something u toy with u either have it or u dont and if u cant get it from him maybe he doesnt truly love u and ull should move on ...
2006-07-30 08:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl_from_da_souf713 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he doesn't trust you, you need to find someone who does. Trust is the biggest part of any relationship. If you don't have trust, you have nothing. You can't do anything to make him trust you...he has to do that on his own. Cause no matter waht you do, he will find a reason (in his own mind) not to trust you.
2006-07-30 08:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know the whole story, of course, but this sounds terrible to me; my feeling is that their is NOTHING you can do to make him trust you; that this has to do with his ability to trust, not your trustworthiness. But, like I said, I don't know the whole story of your relationship.
I think you should get out of this relationship ASAP.
2006-08-02 05:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and buy him a Porsche.
2006-07-30 08:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-08-03 05:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋