My name is Sarah, and all of the guys I end up breacking up with me in a week or like they cheet on me with all os my friends. I just got out of a 6 month relashinship and he broke up with me becuase we did not talk and he loved my best friend... So I just am so heart brocken and need help on what to do when you get a boyfriend and how to leed them on.... PLEEEEZ HELP ME...
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Sarah
2006-07-30 08:36:59 · 36 answers · asked by sweet_n_sourchika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of friends who sleep with your boyfriend. Period. As for finding a good guy, try being single for a while, be happy yourself, then find a guy.
Be open, honest, and do the right thing. Eventually you will find someone who acts the same way. And how could you go wrong with that combination?
(PS the reason you need to be your own person first is so that your life is filled with things other than your boyfriend, if he has little free time and you have a lot of free time, you will smother him by thinking about him all the time while he is out doing other stuff, and end up calling him 5 times a day and txting him 50. Have only a little free time and it will make the time you spend with your BF very special, and if the relationship ends, you have other things you can focus on)
2006-07-30 08:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah, dear dear Sarah, what to do with you? You should be happy the looser broke up with you. Your BEST FRIEND ! Like they say with friends like that who needs enemies? Go get together with your other friends and have a good bashing party, in other words everyone speak what rotten things they can think of about the two for laughs. You will find someone that you can talk to and have things in common with, don't worry you are young and their are lots of more guys to pick from, hopefully not to many loosers. If they are having sex with you then don't .......and if they leave because you don't have sex, you just stick to your guns and don't give in. Now go get with your friends and have your party. Even if its a phone party. k
2006-07-30 08:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget them and move on. Remember nowadays it's hard to have a true friend she sounds more like an acquaintance or she would not want to date your ex. You will find a guy that will truly care only for you. I stay away from that girl. Those you can't trust. They are called Back Stabbers! And as for your ex he is the loser in all this because he lost a nice person that really cared for him. You deserve much better. Good luck!!
2006-07-30 08:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for the right guy to come along. Not every boy is like that.
The thing is...society has given this image that sex is a game. The more a guy can have...the more bragging rights he has. I'm sure they're only going to use your friends as they used you.
I would like to say, I'm sorry for the things you've experienced with guys. Again, not all guys are like that. You'll find the right one.
Stay strong and patient.
2006-07-30 08:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by lenardz33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is like asking the age old question,"Why do dogs sniff other dog's butts?". The answer is simple. Because they are dogs and so are most men. They will sniff at and flirt with other women any chance they get, until they mature. And believe me, honey, men (or should I dare say boys) do not mature as fast as women do. They will get away with it until then or until they meet a woman who is strong enough to tell them how it is going to be. And that, my dear is going to take some growing on your part and I mean emotionally and spiritually.
2006-07-30 08:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by lorassong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like other girls but is not right to break up with a girl that loves him and the boy loves her best friend that happend to me 3 girls broked up with me because of that now they want to come back to me and i said no. You know im heartbreaked to a girl broked up with me on Valentines day i cried a lot but now i dont know if im going to have a gf i dont know were to find one but ill try looking for it
2006-07-30 08:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Hex Tropetor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know y becuz some boys just go along and preten to like you but try to go out with your friend. That's how they try to reach the other person. It's a boy thing. But make sure next time to promise to your friend that if you go out with a boy make sure that your friends to fall for him. And e-mail me later if you have anymore questions or stories that nees to be answered. and also visit my website called gurlzexpress.suddenlaunch3.com it talks about what boys to to betray you or get tosomeone else by using you.
2006-07-30 08:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ebby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sarah,
No need to worry. Don't hold the sand in ur hands. Let them go. Search for the pure person who is interested in you not in ur fashion or style.
2006-07-30 08:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by amitprat_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are choosing guys who are unavailable to you. You have to figure out what attracts you to them and why. Once you are able to do that - you will stop picking those types.
If you are a teenager you will not understand the above. Then you'll just have to wait until you are mature enough to get it.
2006-07-30 08:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friends and boyfriends separate. that happens a lot. How is a guy suppose to act whin his girlfriend shove her friends down his throat. He hooked up with you. You are the one who introduced hi to something better. Don't be pissed. Just move on.
2006-07-30 08:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋