He thinks that sex is the most important thing in the world. He says that I am trying to punish him by not giving him any. The real reason is that he takes sooooooo long. To some women that may sound great, but my bf is overweight, so I am always on top (I'm not overweight), and after about 15min my legs start to cramp up, I get dehydrated, and run out of breath. I've told him all of this, but he claims he wont take as long the next time, but he always does. No other position works for him.
2006-07-30 07:56:08 · 17 answers · asked by ashyne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's playing mind games with you and trying to manipulate you into feeling that you're the one with the problem. Tell him that you don't appreciate being made to feel like the bad guy here, and that your complaints are valid givin the situation. He has issues with sex. He needs to realize that it is NOT the most important thing. If he doesn't then he doesnt respect you for making you feel like you need to put out all the time. He just wants to get laid. I'd put my foot down and tell him how it is. I wouldn't be mean about it, Id just reiterate my points until he understands. good luck to you.
2006-07-30 08:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by a_chatham926 2 · 15⤊ 4⤋
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2016-11-03 07:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your man is selfish and a sexual bully. He shouldn't make you feel guilty for saying no,that is wrong. If he wants more sex he should try shedding some pounds, I'm sure your bored with being on top its so routine. And you know how it ends you cramp tried and pissed at him. tell him the truth you sacrificed yourself long enough to spare him.
2006-07-30 08:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your doing all the work he has no room to complain if you dont feel like doing it when he wants you to....since you have already tried talking to him about it tell him he's either going to have to deal with it and stop his b*tching or find someone else bc theres no point in him making you feel like sh*t bc he's not getting what he wants....sex isnt all that a relationship is about...communication is more important and if he is still stubborn about it and wont even try to not bug you about it then you should find someone else
2006-07-30 08:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. He sounds selfish - he should never try to make you feel guilty. However, if you're sure you want to stay with him, how about you tell him you would like to watch him masturbate, and it would really turn you on? I would think he would be able to finish sooner that way.
2006-07-30 08:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if the man can't understand or compromise honestly find someone who would cause, eventually you'll get tired of the situation & say why have i wasted soooo much time. Take this advice from a man himself....
2006-07-30 08:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by vmrpr1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing it wrong. Use your hands, lips, breasts, to get him excited to the point of ejaculation. Then before it has time to reset, have sex. He will become the 30 second wonder.
2006-07-30 08:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an a$$ find a more reasonable guy
2006-07-30 07:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by tyler_durden_project 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea...definetly time for a new guy...u can find a better guy....with better sex...n he probably wont b an ignorant idiot like the man your with now!
2006-07-30 08:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by d_unit2k7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt care about your needs ? Im so sorry . You deserve better
2006-07-30 08:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋