My boyfriend has constantly been going back and forth between another girl and I for awhile. There have been times when he goes to her for a month and doesn't call me. But then we get in contact and things start up again.
It's been frustrating and I told him I was fed up with him. I haven't talked to him in over 2 weeks and I think he's with her. He won't return my calls or emails.
Is it truly over for us or is he just fed up with me and running to her again?
2006-07-30 07:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really feel your pain. I'm so sorry. Well, it may not be over as far as he's concerned; he probably plans to come back to you for awhile like he has before. But you don't need to be treated so badly. You deserve a guy who will respect you and always be there for you. I know it will hurt for awhile, because all breakups do, but please tell him that it is over if he tries to get back with you. Eventually, you will be very glad you did and I am sure you will find a much better guy. Good luck to you. :)
2006-07-30 07:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a cycle....and if you know a little about your boyfriend, you know his cycle will vary a bit from below...but here's the general rule.
If your boyfriend USUALLY calls every 3 days, but 10 days have gone by and nothing---cause for concern.
If three weeks go by---absolutely over with. It sucks, but guys are NOT GOOD with breaking up...most rather disappear rather than confront someone. Its under the same "file" as avoiding the "let's talk" talk. Plus, you never know...two is better than one or (heavens forbid, none). I don't mean it to be cruel...but you don't mean much to him...and yes, there are men who may not find you attractive, and some that will bend over backwards to love you...find your self the latter....have fun doing it...
2006-07-30 17:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that he was running back and forth between the two of you should have been a good indication that he was not someone that should be with. Yes, it is over and you should find someone who is going to respect you and treat you better.
2006-07-30 07:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Do you feel so inadequate about yourself that you want to take this yo-yo of a creep in and out of your life as per his whim? Just give him the boot as that is what he deserves. And what do you mean when you say "... but then we get in contact and things start up again". That shows how vulnerable you are - how weak you are - and how well he knows what your weakness is. He is having the best of two worlds. Wake up!!!!
2006-07-30 07:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that you even asked that question. "Is he fed up with me?" Dude, you should be fed up with him. Good thing you kicked him out of your house, now go out there and get a real man who won't run to another girl when things get rough! You can get SO much better!
2006-07-30 07:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say be happy that he's gone. All he was doing was playing the both of you anyways and not only was that moraly wrong it was nasty. You don't know who all this girl have been with and if she has a disease or not. Go get yourself checked out and forget about him. You deserve better and never settle for nothing but the best,Why? Because your worth it!!
2006-07-30 07:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in the same sitution i know my babyfatherhave someone else because he bring up the past things have done to him and i called him never return any of my calls or text message well i think we both should move on and find new people
2006-07-30 07:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it quits with him as much as it hurts you. If he really wanted to be with you he wouldn't see her. Set him free he knows he can always come back to you. Don't be there for him see other people. Respect yourself, and be kind to yourself. He will continue this forever... he can have his cake and eat it too. Find someone who just wants YOU.
2006-07-30 08:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by smoochyums 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds way too much like my situation - and it took me a while and a lot of convincing from friends to realize that i didnt need to deal with his games - you deserve a guy who is going to stick with you, dont let him be the one to decide if its over, move on and forget about him - its his loss... it will be tough but you can do it
2006-07-30 07:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell u have to ask if he is goin between u n anotha girl how sad are u, i mean he is seein anotha damn girl ...id say if u dont know if its ova n ur waitn to find out from him ur messed up..id tell him its ova he could have the otha skank
2006-07-30 07:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋