Well my rules are :
1. Don't be clingy
2. Don't ask why they didn't.........?
3. Never be sad because of them
4. Never be mad because of them
5. Understand thier needs and thier work
6. Be considerate
7. Never ask if they love you
8. Never ask if they notice things about you
9. DO NOT BE JEALOUS!!!!!!
10. Don't pester them
11. ALWAYS BE HAPPY TO SEE THEM OR HEAR FROM THEM !!
12. NEVER COMPLAIN!!!
13. tell them how wonderful they are everyday
14. Tell them dirty little things you want to do with them
15. When they can't do something tell them it's OK
ALWAYS SMILE !!!
2006-07-30 07:24:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the most wonderful man in my life . This is how I treat him. I love him sooo much
2006-07-30 07:31:17 · update #1
It's not possible. Seriously. I don't believe there could be such a perfect being in the world. Even God can't do that.
No offense Demonica. Most guys would take advantage of this. I hate people who do this, and that is about everybody in the world. As a race people are too selfish. I don't exclude myself.
2006-07-30 07:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by elliott 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me address them in order.
1) Being clingy and intimate is fun sometimes, although I agree that it becomes annoying in excess. It's okay once in a while. We like to feel needed.
2) You can ask why we didn't do this, that, or the other, but if the response doesn't suit you, don't persist. It is persisting for a response that bothers us.
3) You can feel sad because of us, and if we may have done something to make you sad, let us know; we don't want to do it again! Just don't constantly remind us of it; that will make us feel uncomfortable, and look for a way out of the relationship.
4) Refer to #3.
5) I agree ; however, don't be someone you aren't; if your bf is a marine biologist, and you don't care for marine biologist, don't pretend you do; just don't be completely unknowledgeable about it either.
6) I agree entirely
7) You can ask; just don't pressure us. It might make us feel uncomfortable. Again, don't persist for an answer if you don't get one.
8) You can ask this; just don't do it every two seconds; that's sooo annoying.
9) You can be jealous; just don't make them feel that they aren't good enough for you.
10) Don't pester us too often.
11) Be happy to hear from us, but don't pretend you're happy overall if you aren't; if your cousin was involved in a car crash, don't become happy all of a sudden. That's just weird.
12) You can complain; we do too. Just not too often, please.
13) Please don't. Flattery isn't necessary in a relationship of mutual affection.
14) Don't do this too much; we don't want to feel pressured to do things we have no interest in doing.
15) Be courteous when doing this!
And don't always smile; that's just weird. Try to smile when he tells you a joke, or something amusing. Smile when he picks you up for a date. Don't smile when he's telling you about how his mother has been hospitalized, obviously.
2006-07-30 14:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh you sound like u want to be perfect and a robot we cant all be perfect and not all guys are gonna like these rules because some of these rules are stupid even though i do do alot of stuff that you do but seriously u should take some out because they wont make a difference in a relationship but alot of them are good and i go by alot of the rules that you have with my boy friend and he dosnt complain about it but people are goin to have different opinions but i like most of ur rules
2006-07-30 14:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you probably were instructed about the rules from your 'loving' man.
Do you have RULES pertaining to all aspects of your life & thoughts...
Sometimes a good Debate with my partner exposes an area where we both have a chance to grow- wiser or closer to each other. If my women was NOT a free thinking, acting women everytime i was with her it would get boring...kinda like always ...
2006-07-30 14:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Shuffleking Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u r really flexible its lik u r his perfect gf but some of the rules can be chang lik instead of askin how they luv u(rul # 7) tell him u luv him(only if u do though) and # 13 would make that guy some sort of egomaniac cause then he would com to exspect it everyday(trust me on tht 1 and no that never happened to me)
2006-07-30 14:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Double D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid that if you go by all those rules to the letter than you are just asking for a guy to walk all over you.
2006-07-30 14:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by RFDcode3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words. Give up your identity and personallity and be a door mat. Excellent advice. Geez.
2006-07-30 14:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by lolababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all those rules sound fake as cheap toasty cakes u would seem like a fake girlfriend that all the men would want...except me
2006-07-30 14:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... that sounds more like you're programming yourself to be a robot for a guy rather than be the girl who you really are.. but thats just my opinion
2006-07-30 14:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by evilcheerioman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so funny. Good luck with guys
2006-07-30 14:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋