we live next door to one another and sometimes to me they seem to friendly but he says i;m crazy for even thinking that she says i'm crazy to even think that way too. could it be my imagination. real anwsers please
2006-07-30 07:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Even though women tend to jump to conclusions about cheating more often than men, I think you might be right to have suspicions.
This situation all depends on how much time your man is spending with his "friend" If he is spending so much time away with you that you barely see him or so much time that you don't see him for most of the week, then a comprimise needs to be worked out.
At the same time, don't force yourself on your man. Men are built differently emotionally than women, and we don't need as much quality time with you as you need with us. ask for a wednesday and thursday or every two weeks or so for some time together. If he wants to go somewhere and it conflicts with your time together, don't put your foot down. Tell him he has to make up for it somewhere in the future.
2006-07-30 07:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by vichussmith 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
I hate to say it, but the problem is she lives next door. If you feel this way now, then you're going to keep on feeling it no matter what they say because quite frankly they can be together way too easily. You've got to confront him and tell him that you simply don't feel comfortable with him talking to her so much or spending time with her. If he's really your man, he'll have no problem with that because he has you. Why would he need her?
2006-07-30 07:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Puma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah they have something going on.
You better join in or like it this way or get out of it. You will need to pick one of the three. You might find a new place to live that you pay less or some other advanage and try to get him to leave her. I bet you would end up moving and he would end up moving next door.
2006-07-30 07:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your intution...Of course they are going to say nothing is going on, how many people would be honest enough to say "Yes honey, I'm attracted to her, and want to cheat on you." Even if it hasn't progressed yet to that stage, thier behavior is inappropriate. You should be thier focus. He shouldn't be friendly with her...She shouldn't be friendly with him. As a woman she shouldn't be putting herself in a position that you're thinking what your thinking, he shouldn't either. Your not crazy...They just want to convince you that there's nothing there. Good Luck :)
2006-07-30 07:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and then I found out something was going on. But by then I found out I was pregnant. If u have the gut feeling follow it. I wish I had now I have a lot more to worry about then just myself.
2006-07-30 07:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by domesticgoddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one any time they use the word "crazy" then they r cheatin or about to cheat...second why is he being all friendly with her n not hangin out more with they dude? see they r cheatin or plannin on cheatn, id set this s.h.i.t. str8 now real fast..i can tell u more clues if u like email me directly at devil_queen_biatch14@yahoo.com..i help u out girl
2006-07-30 07:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they aren't spending time together alone, then red flags should be flying. Doesn't hurt to be jealous and a bit precautious.
2006-07-30 07:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not crazy to think anything. What are they doing when they spend time together? It is natural to want to be the one that he spends his time with....and you deserve to be with someone who is fulfilled with hanging out with you and doesn't need to hang out with other girls.
2006-07-30 07:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alright to have a close friend of the opposite sex but,If he is spending more time with the neighbor than you then I would be worried.
2006-07-30 07:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer20692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope something is probably going on. A woman knows.
Good Luck
2006-07-30 07:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋