i am hearing words all the time. and they make me feel sad and very angry. I need help?

Question

Am always hearing words. and these are words from people . Like abuses or trying to demoralize me. I always humble my self trying to be friendly. But when am at my house, the words start coming to my head and i will feel very sad and angry. And will start worrying why i did not come hard to that person at that very period. Please i need help because it's disturbing me

Answer 1

talk to someone that you can trust about it!!! finding medical help may not be the best choice because it could make things worse. trust me im going through a lot and i have found someone who is very close to me now that i can talk to. so thats what i would do if i were you.

Answer 2

Dude, humility and friendliness do not mean letting yourself be degraded. Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less. There are times when people will say things to you that you consider silly and would not even bother responding. But at other times, you have to speak up and let them know that you would appreciate them watching their mouths next time.
If you consider some of the things said not worth responding to, then they are not true and should not bother you at all. It is normal to remember things that were said that hurt, but you must also have to let them go. Don't think over and over about them.
But what strikes me most about your question is instead the fact that it looks like you have some deep insecurities, low self esteem. Then possibly there's this ring of people you like to hang out with so that u could get some sense of self worth, but these people notice your insecurities and take advantage to say hurtful things to you. Now you, desperate to keep that "friendship" (or whatever it is) do not answer for fear of hurting them. Then when u go back home, your real you pops up and starts asking why u acted dumb.
You must always remember that your real worth does not come from what whoever says you are but from what you really are and who God made you to be. People will always treat you the way you treat yourself, so I suggest you start thinking better of yourself. Or better still, find yourself around people who will help you develop a stronger inner self without abusing your weakness.
You could also use some good literature on the subject.
Wish you the best and take care, a'ight?

Answer 3

Don't let it.
You have the power to say no! Stop!
Fill your mind with something else. Read Psalm 116. Read a good book. Listen to music. Pray. Find a friend who will support you. Stand up for yourself and stop sniveling. If you are an easy target then the idiots who find pleasure in putting other people down will keep shooting their remarks at you.
Cease to respond to their taunting. Start jogging.
Distance yourself from your taunters. Even if it means a new job or new location. Start over, fresh. Watch the movie "Sleeping with the enemy."

Answer 4

I feel the same way... Every once in a while i can hear the people yelling at me and I wish i had said then what I thought then. I think the best thing to do is to... Say now what you thought. If these people are really driving you insane you need to stop them! But just one more thing... If you think your going insane your just fine. Only the ones who think they're ok have a problem.

Answer 5

You sound severly depressed. Don't spend so much time with yourself because it is affecting your mental health. try hard to find friends, or find an activity that gets your mind off of your troubles. I think that online gaming might up your spirits if you are a very lonely person.

Answer 6

IF YOU ARE SERIOUS

See a doctor and explain your symptoms and they will point you in hopefully the right direction.

IF YOU ARE PHUCKING WITH US IN YAHOO ANSWERS

Change the station by banging your head on a wall. Sooner or later the voices will be Jessica Alba and Eva Longoria having a sexy lingerie party. AND that you want to hear!! Then Carmen Electra chimes in lamenting about her wondrous bosom. YOWZA, I want to hear THAT conversation!!

TFTP

Answer 7

i know the typical answer is "seek professional help"...and i'm not going to underestimate it...because i do think that is the best route to go for you. however, writing about this, praying about it, talking to other people you trust about it....is going to help in a huge way. remember to fight it...God made you and loves you, reguardless of what position you take on that subject. if you need to talk to anyone i am always here for you. IM or email. just check my profile. *hug* stay strong, hon.

Answer 8

Did you attend a High School named Columbine in Colorado?

Answer 9

man you just need to stand up for yourself and tell the people what you think and how you feel about that kind of behavior.
Dont be humble as people see that as a sign of weakness.
Just tell them that you do not appreciate that kind of crap and that you dont want to talk to them anymore.

Answer 10

You should mention this to your doctor at once...it could be the beginnings of schizophrenia or something else. It's probably something easily remedied..so don't wait.