Ok i have lied to my babyfather an couple of times and now everytime we talked he been up the same old stuff saying it will never workout between me and u because i can't trust you and u are lier what can i do to grain his trust back please i need help about this i still love him alot???
2006-07-30 07:00:18 · 10 answers · asked by cowanelmo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say this to him, "look I know I've lied to you before but I'm really sorry and I'm not going to do that to you anymore. I don't want you to think that I'm going to lie to you anymore, because I'm not going to and I want to make things better between us. I'm going to make a real effort to be honest with you from now on but you can't keep on judging me by what I've done in the past because I'm not that person anymore and It's unfair on me to judge me for the things I've done wrong in the past when I've changed, I'm trying to make amends and when I give you my word I want it to mean something to you".
The thing is to let him know that you want to be honest with him but you won't tolerate him judging you or calling you a liar when you're not going to lie to him anymore. You have to be firm with him and let him know that although you've hurt him before by lying to you he's hurting you just as much by not letting you say sorry to him and not giving you a another chance.
He can either take it or leave it.
I hope this helps and everything works out for you.
Take care
2006-07-30 07:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to sound so callous, but I really dislike people that lie, and now that you've done it, you're reaping what you've sewn.
All I can suggest is that you keep your word and don't slip up, and maybe.....maybe in time if he sees that you've changed and are worthy of trust....he will put trust in you again, but I'll warn you. Once you've crossed that barrier it opens up so many other suspicions.
Depending on how things went down and what you lied about will influence how long and IF he can fully trust you again.
Good luck to you.
2006-07-30 14:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your responsiblities. Hopefully, if he observes that you are trustworthy enough to do so he will trust you enough to have a relationship with you again. If he doesn't, you have to accept it as the price for the lies. At least you can say that your life is moving forward.
Good Luck!
2006-07-30 14:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by AILENE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to figure out why are you lieing so much. You don't hurt people that you claim to love. You proably need to be honest with him and tell him why you lie. Try to cry when you do it. When I mean cry mean it! Beg him to understand and work with you. Invite him over for dinner and talk to each other.
2006-07-30 14:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by juanclark24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always tell the truth, then you wont find yourself in tricky situations like this.prove to him you can be trusted by never lying to him again, cook him a romantic meal, and no more porkies....
2006-07-30 14:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by The Way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust develpos from inside
Let it work out by itself
2006-07-30 14:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by snow l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him that you know you hurt him but you still love him nd you need him and that you are sorry . do anything you can
2006-07-30 14:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_lesley_x00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..just tell him how you fill9stop lieing if you are)just tell him he will aventually fall into your armS; )!!
2006-07-30 14:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant they never foget
2006-07-30 14:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2006-07-30 14:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋