There's this guy who is a grade older than me, but is on the drum line with me. I was so sure he liked me because he flirted with me a LOT (I like him) until my best friend (who used to like him but doesn't any more) told me he liked her. She told him they should just be friends. I am new to the school and he is the only person I have a chance of going to homecoming with. Should I tell him that I like him?
2006-07-30 06:58:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you will regret it later if you dont
2006-07-30 07:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Preggo2005 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this case, actions speak louder than words. I don't think you need to tell him anything. Just be yourself and be friendly. You can smile, laugh at his jokes, and even flirt a little. You won't have to say a word. He'll get the message eventually, if he hasn't already.
Don't listen to what other people tell you. Sometimes even a "best friend" can give you the wrong information. Maybe she's a little jealous of the attention you're getting from this guy, and that's why she's saying he likes her. In other words, she's telling you in a roundabout way, that she wishes you'd leave him alone. At your age, all's fair in love and war -- although I hope it doesn't come to that. She's still your best friend, and you can listen to her and even agree with her. But the final decision, whether to go to the homecoming dance if he asks you, is yours.
Good luck, dear.
2006-07-30 14:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him, because if held back to long you could lose him, so just make conversation and throw the fact that you like him in there aight. If he is not feeling you a least you got your feelings out and heard. But don't let that get you down. Okay so go for it...take risks...you will survive
2006-07-30 14:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him only because is a way to go to homecoming? As for your friend.....be careful of friends where love is involved. If they are not going out together then he is free to chose
2006-07-30 14:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, if you are very sure of it. But maybe he would go to homecoming just to make your friend jealous? question for thought.
2006-07-30 14:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him that you like him and if he says that he doesn't like you back make a joke out of it and say thats its fine you dont care we'll just stay the way we are very simple.
2006-07-30 14:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by RED BLOOD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! And ask him to homecoming while you're at it!
Have FUN!
2006-07-30 14:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes of couures u should tell him.....theres nothing 2 be scared of adn the worst hing that will happen is that he dosnt like u but i dont think that will happen ok.....so go 4 it ....
2006-07-30 14:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It sure sounds that he likes you. So just tell him.
2006-07-30 14:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if he flirts with u mabye your so called friend likes him but didn't tell u
2006-07-30 14:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by sweetmj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋