i've had my bf for a good 2 months, now, he's been working up the topic of sex in our conversations. he always sneaks into my house late at night. i don't want to dump him because he's really nice. but he wont let the subject go! i've been telling him NO, but he keeps asking! what do i do?
2006-07-30 06:51:22 · 21 answers · asked by whataprincess! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him strait up how you feel and if he dosen't listen then you got to do what you need to do!
2006-07-30 06:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to sit down with and a have a serious conversation about what you want. I don't know if your a virign or not. But you need to let him know why you don't want to have sex right now. Or if you had sex before and want to wait until it really right between you in him. Then you need to let him no. Don't be afaird to discuss this with him. He needs to understand no means no until your ready! I'm assuming your waiting on love. But that's a good thing because I have been going through the same thing with guy I have been seeing. It sounds like your girl with moral's and respect for your body. Don't don't anything until your truly ready! Good luck! You'll know when your ready and don't forget to protect yourself!
2006-07-30 14:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by juanclark24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just have sex with him.
Of course, if you don't want too.....there is not much else to do but dump him. Any guy that just asks and asks to have sex, does not care about you all that much. Your just an object for him to have sex with, not a person.
You could try to walk the line and tell him something like 'stop asking'. I doubt that will work and chances are he will dump you if you put your foot down away way.
2006-07-30 13:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no and dump him. All guys want to have sex. I don't know how old you are, but 2 months is a long time to be in a relationship with no sex.
2006-07-30 13:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, do you love me because you find me special? or do you love me because you want to have sex with me? If he really loves you, he will be willing to wait until you are ready for it. He will not push you to do things that is against your will, and in the end regret it. When he shows that he respects your decision, it shows that he is a real gentleman. And not a man who is eager for the time to conquer you like a trophy.
2006-07-30 13:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by hugs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give in to his pressuring you. and you should dump him too. if he sneaks into your room at night then hes only after one thing. have some respect for yourself before you do the wrong thing.
2006-07-30 13:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by terri p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell that boy that he can come to see you in the day time. He is up to no good. When he wants to see you at night. what is this?
2006-07-30 14:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be really nice, but there are other nice guys out there that will respect your choice of NO and let it drop until you are comfortable with it.
2006-07-30 13:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in no uncertain terms....the woman decides when its time....and dont bring it up again.
If he loves and respects you...or at least the respect part...he will shut the heck up about it.
If he leaves...then you know that was all he wanted from you.
2006-07-30 13:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby what doesnt he understand about hte word no, does he come late because parents are gone or asleep , if so he wants the booty and then once he gets the booty its bye- bye, so tell the **** head to **** off ok you can thank me later
2006-07-30 13:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by pisof49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋