im a sweet girl with a wild side. i am very romantic. and down to earth i love music and animals, but guys dont like me because im 270 pounds, its not fair
2006-07-30 06:46:24 · 19 answers · asked by I think so? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put down the McDonalds
go on a diet
or start to look for a chubby chaser
2006-07-30 06:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am like you execept the wild side and 270 pounds. Just be yourself and don't act depressed around guys, unless he's your boyfriend. You just have to wait for the guy who falls for you, and all of you. Hard to believe, but there are some guys who are attracted to heavy girls...when you have reached that age, you'll find the right one.
Just to make you feel better, I'm 10 lbs. underweigh for my height.
2006-07-30 13:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by melomane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey i'm sure that you have friends, but most not all guys like girls slimmer or the same average body shap natural differences not with standing igf that makes sense.
if you are looking for a date then try going on a diet and losing about 80lbs. this will be a long hard struggle and a life long dietary change to make the change work permenantly.
but for friends size is not an issue is it. Life is not fair sweetheart.
if life was fair i'd be fit and healthy myself and with the girl of my dreams..
i'm sure i'm not the only one who is concerned for the askers health, at that weight if 5'8 or under it can be extremely dangerous health wise.
so i'm sure we are all opening our email inbox to this asker for her to contact us direct. via profile.
2006-07-30 14:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly in the society that we live in today it is sad but true. You must however believe that there is a partner for everybody in life tho. weight and size do matter no matter what you look like or how you act there are very few places in society for those who oppose the rules wether they can help it or not.
2006-07-30 14:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own person , you don't need a guy messing you up . When the time comes you'll meet the right one for you .
2006-07-30 13:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know what to tell you
you can wait around until you find someone who is right for you
or if you get sick of waiting you can try and loose some weight
either that or you can be total slut and blow everyone at partys or something
2006-07-30 13:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by js1n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea your right that isnt fair, u should exercize alittle, but one day u will find someone that likes u, dont be sad or lonely it can lead to bad things
2006-07-30 13:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some confidence.
Is it just your weight? do you take care of yourself. Dress nice, make up, do your hair?
If someone is so shallow towards you they arent worth YOUR time.if you ever need to talk you can e mail me at j_brat01@yahoo
2006-07-30 13:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. If your confident then you will find a guy that likes you for who you are. So just be patient.
2006-07-30 13:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Megan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong many guys like bbw, you simply need to fix your face and hair, and try not to wear baggy or oversized clothes. alot of men includu=ing me love big beautiful women
2006-07-30 13:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by pisof49 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋