2006-07-30 06:40:23 · 31 answers · asked by Marty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him, this relationship is not worth keeping. You have learned to love each other. You desire your happiness and to grow in a relationship that brings out the best in you. Unfortunately, you don't find such thing in your relationship, its better to be friends. And have the opportunity to meet other people that is really meant for both of u. :)
2006-07-30 06:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by hugs 1 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Think of it as ripping off a bandaid. Do it quickly, but definitively. First, if you do it in person (which I recommend), do it at his house so he is home and can be dramatic if he needs to in private. This gives you the added advantage of gathering up any of your stuff you may have left there, and being able to leave as soon as you are ready. You're not stuck to finish dinner! Prepare what you want to say beforehand: I've had a really great time and I've learned a lot from this relationship, but it's just not working any more. My feelings for you have changed. If he starts asking questions or demanding answers, just keep repeating this over and over to him until it sticks. Don't make the mistake of giving him any false hope because you feel sorry for him, or guilty for hurting someone you care about. You have to be tough. You have to end it. No I'll call yous. No breakup nookie. No hope. Finito. Then, don't answer his calls or emails.
2006-07-30 07:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by ungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you liked to be dumped? Wouldn't you rather they tell you straight out so you don't wonder about what happened or what you did wrong? There's nothing bad about ending a relationship if the feeling is gone, but have a little class and do it the right way.
2006-07-30 06:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said dump, there is no best way to say it except "I'm Going to Dump You into this Trash Can." But it depends whether you want to remain friends with him after the dumping. If you want to be friends with him, tell him that you hope he doesn't feel so bad. Maybe you can set him up with one of your friends or help him get over you.
2006-07-30 06:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you kinda have been given the thought, staring / making eye touch with a woman does not propose the guy likes her. In MY attitude, it could propose 3 issues: a million. the guy is gentle speaking to the female, and is gentle together with her presence around (basically friends). I a good style of friends that are ladies and that i continually make eye touch as quickly as I confer with them, it is basically casual u kno? 2. the guy needs to fulfill the female / is involved in her (acquaintance). the two that, or... the female is bizarre-finding or gruesome lol. yet nonetheless, adult adult males does not stare at a woman that long if she's like that. 3. the guy likes the female. He does not be responsive to a thank you to particular his emotions, yet needs he ought to locate a thank you to realize this. i might enable you be responsive to promptly up a thank you to tell which a style of perspectives does a guy propose whilst he makes eye touch or stares, yet i do no longer think of i'm able to. you need to basically.. kinda experience it. good luck, you would be extra responsive to it alongside the way haha. wish this helped ;)
2016-11-03 07:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a guy you've just been dating for a short period of time, just tell him the next time you see him or hell, send it in a text message! But if it's a guy you've been with for a long time, you should probably sit down and actually have a real talk. Good luck getting him to show emotion though. Better just stick to the text message. F*uck it.
2006-07-30 06:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make this very sad, but try to be nice to him, try dumping yourself in a mirror, it will get u a little ready. say, you are a very good person but i think we might need to break up, you are a smart, funny, awesome guy, but i think we need to because i need to catch up on everything you say, you are so awesome, and that is why we need to break up. i am sure any girl in the universe would be lucky to have you, but, i think it is time we go in seperate ways.
well, i have never broken up with a guy, i am not old enough to start dating, so i dont know exactly what all i am talkin about, but keep ur chin up. someone will come for you soon!
have a great day,
dance dance chickidy
2006-07-30 06:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell us it is over and you are not interested in going further. Over, done, period, dot, el morte'. If ya just dump and run with no explanation that brings out the stalker in some and brings out the pathetic calls and whining in others. If ya say what ya mean and mean what ya, say then you are perfectly justified in ignoring all future contact. NEXT!
2006-07-30 06:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Marshal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty. Let him know that you would like to be just friends, and that you do not want to be girlfriend/boyfriend any longer. Don't do something to make him walk away - that is childish. Honesty is best. It may hurt him, but he will respect you as a person later. Character is important. Don't ever risk tarnishing your character.
2006-07-30 06:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person be sincere and not in public or around anyone. Be gentile and to the point . Be quick and ask him if he'd like to say anything . Tell him where the two of you stand and leave .
NEVER BRING UP ANOTHER PERSON WHEN DOING THIS !!!
2006-07-30 06:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him the truth. "It's not working for me".
It's better to get out early the have a disaster later.
2006-07-30 06:43:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋