what is the extent of jealous of a boyfriend? my bf has stopped contacting me, looking at me jus because i was doing salsa with another guy n told him that my dance partner is very sweet. now he hasnt contacted me since 1 month. during this month i got 2 mesgs that -"he wants to slap me, hit my car with a stone and that his blood starts to boil on seeing my face." WAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN?? DOES HE LOVE ME? HAS HE FORGOTTEN ME AS WE ARE NOT TALKING SINCE MORE THAN A MONTH?? WILL HE CONTACT ME COZ I REALLLY LOVE HIM N HAV CLEARED UP HIS MISUNDERSTANDING THROUGH MESGS??
2006-07-30 06:39:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know sister, I am in the same boat with you. My bf has been gone for a week, and I haven't heard word number one. He told me about this trip for a couple of weeks, and we actually left things on good terms. I have messaged, emailed, called his computer, looked up where he is supposed to be and called that number(if you want that story, email me back). I just want to know that he is safe and not dead in the streets somewhere. As far as the specifics of your problem goes, were you aware that he was watching you dance while you were dancing, or does he feel like he caught you doing something? Secondly, with the irate remarks about seeing your face, and proposing violence to you and your property, there are one of two possible scenarios to consider here. He either loves you and is mad at himself for feeling so strongly, or he has posessiveness and violence issues. If it were me, I would message him and ask that very question. You know, it could be a combination even. After doing that, I would ask about how to make things right. In the future, if it were me, I would want to know what your "dating ground rules" are just so the two of you are on the same page about what your expecatations are of one another. I would ask that for future reference and also to see if you really want to comply with his view of what his girlfriend should be.
Hope this helps!
2006-07-30 07:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Allison L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a violent guy that doesn't even love you. Let him go. By this time he would be saying that he misses you and that he will understand that you're just dancing, but he's doing the opposite.
2006-07-30 13:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by mansongirl17us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that it's over. don't sweat it and move on....good luck
2006-07-30 13:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by hotmaxus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋