2006-07-30 06:10:52 · 44 answers · asked by ladyflames 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i do have jesus in my life.but some things he leaves up to you note god has put this person in my life but not sure why yet
2006-07-30 06:16:44 · update #1
Make sure that yall agree in Faith.The foundation that is built on Jesus
teachings will stand the test of time.Ask Jesus to open the doors of
this relationship that they can't be closed and if he does go for it.
In Christ in Love,
TJ57
2006-07-30 06:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 57 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes , realize that falling in love is only the development of attachment , and that attachment is like a cactus , it only hurts until you let it go.what you love in another is only the reflection of yourself , so it is only yourself that you are loving , and that self is existant in all others , not just one , so you can love all equally.first learn how to love your self truthfully , and you will no longer need any other love.That which you are, your true self, you love it, and whatever you do, you do for your own happiness. To find it, to know it, to cherish it is your basic urge. Be true to your own self, love your self absolutely. Do not pretend that you love others as yourself. Unless you have realized them as one with yourself, you cannot love them. Don't pretend to be what you are not, don't refuse to be what you are. Your love of others is the result of self-knowledge, not its cause. Without self-realization, no virtue is genuine. When you know beyond all doubting that the same life flows through all that is and you are that life, you will love all naturally and spontaneously. When you realize the depth and fullness of your love of yourself, you know that every living being and the entire universe are included in your affection. But when you look at anything as separate from you, you cannot love it for you are afraid of it. Alienation causes fear, and fear deepens alienation. It is a vicious circle. Only self-realization can break it.Love is not selective, desire is selective. In love there are no strangers. In dream you love some and not others. On waking up you find you are love itself, embracing all. Personal love, however intense and genuine, invariably binds; love in freedom is love of all. When you are love itself, you are beyond time and numbers. In loving one you love all, in loving all, you love each.The consciousness in you and the consciousness in me, apparently two, really one, seeks unity and that is love.
2006-07-30 06:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by cory55355 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can't stop yourself from falling in luv. as much as we might not want to fall in luv cuz heart break is always in the back of our minds. we still can't stop ourselves from falling in luv. we can try and not let our luv for someone show on the outside but eventually it will show no matter how hard you try and show it so why not just let it out and face the facts. even when there is always a risk of getting your heart broken. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 07:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask Jesus into your life and be born again by the power of the Gospel (an actual real life event in your real life) if you do this in a prayer sincerely God will answer you! you have to truely seek then God will answer!
2006-07-30 06:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by truth4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in the sense that if you really don't want to be in a relationship at the time you can purposefully not spend enough time with someone you think you might like so you never reach any further with them.
2006-07-30 06:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, with discipline and avoidence, you can't love what you don't know and understand so if you are never around that person you won't be in love with them. If you don't want to love them make them hate you, purposely piss them off to the point that they will never speak to you again.... trust me it works.
If they are your soul mate than that is an entirely different thing because there is nothing that says you are in love with your soul mate just that he/she completes you.
2006-07-30 06:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a state of mind and not a desease. So yes it is possible to prevent yourself from falling in love. But do you really want to?
2006-07-30 06:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by lordcomplexity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally no..but you can stop yourself from falling in love with the wrong person if you make a criteria list and stick to it...
2006-07-30 06:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt something u can "do" to end falling in love iwth somebody..there is not any short cut back or magic potion im afraind..the terrific situation to do is get ur recommendations off BELIVE ME i be responsive to how troublesome this is basically too bt jst get into ur hobbies make new freinds nad how knows wt ought to happn!
2016-11-03 07:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but you have to catch it early on. Don't daydream about the person. Think only of their faults and flaws. Think of them as a kid brother, Annoying but kinda cute.
2006-07-30 06:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋