I wrote a question a few weeks back "how do i get him" I got drunk, got his phone number from his friend, we went out....had a few laugh, drink, kiss, it was great. So now.....he wants to think about it, I've been in horrible relationships w/ controlling men, he's been in horrible relationships with skank girls. So...now there's another guy. Should I wait of go with the new guy who isn't going to put me on a waiting list. I like the first guy but I hate being told to wait, especially when I wanted him so bad.
2006-07-30 05:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by Killer Bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait for him. If you want him that bad, wait. He will appreciate it.
2006-07-30 05:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by fortunamajor 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what if this "other guy" don't want to think about it.. and if you are even thinking about this "other guy" then apparently the first guy that put you on hold doesn't mean all that much.. know what i mean.. cuz if you really liked him this "other guy" never would of even had a chance!! but he does and you like him otherwise you wouldn't even ask... so go ahead and move on.. the one that put you on hold will regret it.. how long did you plan on waiting? If he ever took you off hold.. who knows he could be on the other line for a long time and don't you usually hang up if you are on hold for over 2 minutes anyway??? He will call you back if he cared? but in the waiting time there are other things that you can be doing if you know what i mean??
2006-07-30 12:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has probably asked you to wait because he doesn't want to jump from one relationship to another which says to me that he is a good guy wait for him for a while try being just friends for it a bit he sounds like he is worth it
2006-07-30 12:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the one without the wait list. At least that way the guy with the wait list will see your not sitting around waiting for him. It will make him want you more if he really wants you he won't let you seeing this other dude bother him.
2006-07-30 12:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your behavior is not that of a respectable woman, sweetie! Men use girls like you because you are easy but never consider meaningful relationships. You both have made bad decisions and perhaps even deserve each other. But, rise above that mode and make some changes in your lifestyle in what you do, where you go, who you choose as friends....everything. It is up to you......stop whining!
2006-07-30 12:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really like guy number one so much if you are willing to give up so quickly because of an "I don't know right now" type of answer. Go with guy number two. Even if you wait and guy number one "concedes" , so to speak you will always resent that he made you wait.
2006-07-30 12:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by s c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have right to date both of them if you want but the problem is the first guy may think you are not really really interested and he could be discouraged to really date you later.
It is a risk to date 2 of them but if you like the first one, really like him then wait for him. Remember he got awful relationships and he must hurt.
2006-07-30 12:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this...
You've been in horrible relationships with a controlling men and this man wants you to wait while he thinks about having a relationship with you.
DING, DING, DING!!! Hello? Anybody home there?
2006-07-30 12:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on a date with the other guy...it's not like going on ONE date is going to make you instant boyfriend/girlfriend...unless that's how fast YOU move!!! Maybe that will make the other guy want you more if he knows that you don't have to wait around for him to make his decision!!!
2006-07-30 12:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you like this first guy give him some time and keep giving him attention. Sometimes good things come to those who wait.
2006-07-30 12:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the second guy a chance, he sounds human. First one stinks. Have more respect for yourself and find a man who has time for you. Good luck
2006-07-30 12:47:09 · answer #11 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋