it smells nice, and i want to go and have a burger. i think its very rude that they didn't invite us and i am evilly glad that it looks like rain. HA!!!
2006-07-30 05:15:55 · 59 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
cheer up-our neighbours have a bbq at the slightest hint of sunshine-thats every day lately and all they ever share with us is the smoke that their"smoke free"bbq gives off-have you had a bbq lately and didnt invite them??perhaps you could roll around in the garden screaming"im hungry"
2006-07-30 05:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
Your best strategy is to have your own bbq, and then invite them.
The reason they didn't invite you will come up. It may be they were having a private party. But if they really just snubbed you, your invitation will make them feel all guilty, whether they accept it or not.
But maybe, if you're just sort of strangers (like a lt of neighbors are) this will help break the ice for future invitations.
2006-07-30 05:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rjmail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like my neighbors and I would invite them if I thought they wanted to come but I think we would find very little to actually talk to them about once they were here for a few seconds and it would just become awkward really fast.
They are really nice people, fun and nice, friendly and accomidating but they have their kinds fun and tastes we have ours. We are a little too twisted for them I think? They are good ol' simple southern folk and we are not... so I don't think it would be a great mix? Maybe that is the same kind of deal with you. Maybe they just have the good sense to know better?
I would have offered them some though
2006-07-30 05:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were the rest of the street invited?
If not, why should they be obliged to invite you?
I think your neighbours should adapt the 'more the merrier' approach and be more social.
Maybe they are highly embarassed of you - u sound like a slob. No decent middle class family would want lower class slobs at their BBQ.
2006-07-30 05:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what, my neighbours are also having a BBQ right now and they didn't invite me, come to think of it they had a party last night too, they didn't invite me. I'm having a party in two weeks so perhaps I'll invite them and that will really embarrass them eh?
2006-07-30 05:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is have a BBQ at your place and then invite them.... The next time they have one they should invite you and if they don't then why would you want to hang out with people like that anyhow
2006-07-30 05:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by gorra92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mainly cause you're ugly, both of you. We know who you are; yeah well we weren't invited either, but we don't care. We don't know why we weren't invited, but we know why you weren't invited; namely, cause you're ugly. That's right we are neighbours of yours.
But don't despair, you got enough answers on this crazy question to occupy you for some time and entertain you.
(Another thing that turns people back, besides your looks, is the colour or your living room, so you can do them the favour of not inviting them either -- until you repaint that living room. Ha!)
2006-07-30 05:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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With an attitude like that, I'm not surprised they didn't invite you in the first place.
2006-07-30 05:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To really answer I need more details. If they invited the other people in the neighborhood and not you, then heck yeah be mad. But, maybe it is just them deciding to bbq at the last minute. I don't know.
2006-07-30 05:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree very rude.
I invite several neighbours when i have a BBQ.
I buy all the food and drink and we have a great time.
Come to my BBQ next time babe.
You might get to see my husband in a naked apron lol
2006-07-30 05:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ GOTH CHICK♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait to be invited! if u want it that bad just drop round with a bottle of wine or a few beers, sit yourself down till the food is ready then help yourself.
have fun at the barbie!
2006-07-30 05:39:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋