OK everyone... I have this big problem... Ok last night I went out to eat with my sorta bf... and at the restaurunt I saw this other guy that I knew from 3 years ago. This other guy and me were suppose to be like a one night thing, but we ended up speding evryday together for over 6 months.. I was really starting to fall for him, but I didn't know if I should tell him because I though we were just sorta like friends with benifits, anyways... And after school ended that summer, I was having family problem cause my parents split... I spent most of the summer with just my frineds because I could really talk to them about my feelings. I never forgot about that guy I had been falling for, But we never talked again. I'm sure thats my fault and all, but I saw him last night and I was wondering if I should call him or not. See if I do call I don't really know what I want... I mean its been 3 years. And I don't know what we were then anyways.. But If I don't call I will always wonder HELP!!
2006-07-30 04:53:26 · 14 answers · asked by Tami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh... That summer that we last talked, well he might have tried to see me, but i moved 3 times since then
2006-07-30 04:59:36 · update #1
I think you better call him because that's the only reason for you to stop your wonder. If you call him you can start by saying Oh, I saw you last night that's why I called then ask how is he ? How s his family, How his love life and etc. Then the guy will ask you like this. "Tami ,can we meet sometimes"?
2006-07-30 05:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Angels Rose 2 · 8⤊ 2⤋
well u guys stop talking and im sure it was a mutal thing so dont think its ur fault.still u have both moved on it seems so why go and bother him now. u should have realized this a long time ago and not need to c him ti make u think about him.its ur mind playing tricks on u. u c an ex in the street and u havent seen them in long time ur going to walk away thinking bout them.so this is same thing and yes thats true u will always wonder but its been to long.u have a sort of bf well give him a chance.if ur not happy with him then go ahead and call that other guy.just he might be in realtionship or something and u might cause drama.so yeah u need to decide let go past and live present or reconnect with the past and leave present.good luck
2006-07-30 12:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him to see how he is doing. Tell him that you saw him last night and ... say to him that you can go out some time...and his answer is very important. But I think he will agree so just call him and everything else is going to be OK by itself. But do it, otherwise after some period you will feel very sorry you haven't done that before...and maybe then it will be too late for a call...
2006-07-30 12:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So call and start fresh. No "benefits" just chit-chat. "Hey, I was so excited to see you the other night. What have you been up to all of this time? Dating anyone? Can we have lunch?"....The worst thing that could happen is that he'll not be interested and so what? He hasn't called in 3 years, right? Satisfy yourself and call. You have absolutely nothing to lose at this point in time.
2006-07-30 11:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him! what if you guys still have a connection? you will never know if you dont call. and plus i bet hes wondering what ever happened to the days you spent together, just call him and catch up but when you first start talking to him dont mention any feelings or anything because that will scare him off but continue to talk to him and see if the sparks are still there. never spend your life wondering what COULD have happened spend your life knowing.
2006-07-30 12:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and tell him you were wondering how he was doing. Mention to him that you saw him the other night and thought you would call. Dont make it sound like you have been pining over him all this time though.
2006-07-30 11:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. The phones work both ways. If he wanted you back, he would call you or said something when you guys saw each other.
2006-07-30 12:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sassy OLD Broad. Call him just to catch up and then decide how you feel.
2006-07-30 12:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him before you have kittens. but don't expect him to propose or ask for a date. he already left you and doesn't expect you to call. move on and good luck.
2006-07-30 12:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call to say hi not explain.wait for him to either ask or not.im sure he got the message by now.
2006-07-30 11:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋