why does the relation between man and woman end by a simple marriage, as no fun after marriage as we had before marriage
2006-07-30 04:28:20 · 17 answers · asked by Raja Rajeshwar G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Since that's not something that happens in all marriages, it sounds more like a personal interaction problem rather than a problem with marriage in general.
2006-07-30 04:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no fun after marriage and just before....the marriage needs some help!
Marriage is something that has been completely ruined. It is not a "necessary" thing to do in life, but helps a great deal if a man and a woman can find each other and be happy and help each other thru life. My oppinion has been completely smashed about the whole institution. Why married couples cant co-exist with out getting completely bitter and sick of each other is a mystery to me. But, then again, I guess that is why I've never been married. I'm looking for a man and a marriage that doesnt exist.
2006-07-30 04:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does the relationship end there? It hasn't in my marriage. In fact, tonight my husband and I are going to the local comedy club. We try to have a date every month. We would do it more but we have 4 kids. Marriage doesn't end the fun and neither does having kids. You just have to use creative ways to have fun again.
2006-07-30 04:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mawyemsekhmet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you either know little about marriage, or happen to be in an unhealthy one.
I'm happier today after 10 years of marriage than I ever was before.
2006-07-30 04:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many people in the world who don't marry but live together as if they are, many famous people are doing it,
however, marriage is the next stage in life, where you are ready to move on, and where FUN isn't everything in the world.
2006-07-30 04:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Arun M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it's not necessary to marry.I'm 10 yrs. married & am still haveing as much if not more fun than prior to getting married.My wife & I do just about everything togeather. Every day brings something new.Not all of it's fun I'll admit,but we do have a great time!! Trully sorry if you are married & not haveing fun,but not all marrages are like that.
2006-07-30 04:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by scott m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you don't have to get married! There are many many "life partners" out there that have a wonderful union. Marriage is just a slip of paper! I don't understand why it is so important to people, but, if you have a wonderful relationship, there is no reason to get married just because it is "the norm." :)
2006-07-30 04:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by jeepkari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in God...yes...it is necessary to be married....and marriage is the beginning of marriage....if things are not the same...then you should talk to one another and try to make things better...communication is the key to a strong marriage...and of course your faith in God and one another...
2006-07-30 04:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry you are not having fun but this is your choose and you can change it by talking a step towards having fun by enjoying each other.
If a man and a woman life together as man and wife they should be married God does not approve of shacking up.
but a man and woman are not required to be marry to be friends
2006-07-30 04:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary to marry.....you can not find or show your real love only if you are married.....you can have a great relationship even without marriage....:)
2006-07-30 04:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by mateja b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋