yes I did, for one full year. It was hell. I'm a people lover so I couldn't figure out why she was so verbally abusive. I am the quite and passive type so finally I went right up to her so close I could smell her doggy breath and told her to shut the h#&* up or I would put my foot where the sun don't shine! It worked. I'm 5'10 and very lady like big feet. so end of story to that. Stand up for yourself in anyway possible, you did not come into this world to be picked on, ever.
Rae Marie, California
2006-07-30 04:31:42
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answered by Anonymous
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I've beem bullied al my life for wearing glasses. I'm from Eastern Europe, where the people are more idiotic, so... this could be an explanation. Also for being different(I never had the clothes other had, etc) and foe being a litle efeminate. Never did anything, because I preffered running. And I would not have had any help, so, there was no use fighting 20 boys.
2006-07-30 04:54:50
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answered by Cristian 2
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I went to a very tough school and in junior high a guy that was much older and larger than me (at the time... I'm a lot bigger now)
picked on me fro no real reason other than he could...
One day we were walking in oposite directions in the hallway and he swung his fist at my face and I raised my arm to block the blow... I hit him right in the throat and it dropped him to his knees chocking and I ran off down the hall... he looked for me after school everyday for a week but never found me! It was the last week of school and my family moved out of town over the summer so I guess I got lucky.
Looking back I should have told my family or the school but I was too embarassed that I couldn't defend myself from this guy... but he was older and bigger (and meaner) I am certain he has gone on to some correctional facility where he got to experience being on the receiving end of some violence himself....
There is no easy answer to how to handle bullies... each case is different but here's an article on it
http://health.yahoo.com/news/60461
hope it helps...
2006-07-30 04:28:06
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answered by Klaatu Barada Nikto 3
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My first day at middle school (2 years ago) a bully tried to punk me and make me look weak in front of his freinds. I kicked his *** because what he didnt know was that i work out and take boxing. I dont recomend fighting as a way to deal with bullies but in certain situations its ok. Nobody bothered me after that though.
2006-07-30 04:20:46
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answered by rockandroll5556 2
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never really been bullied at school, but many ways to show that you are not the prey is to help others who do get bullied. also join sports, dont be gothic (since the majority of america, does not like gothism).
whatever you do, you have to make sure that you side with most americans, and that you got friends to back you up.
2006-07-30 06:39:11
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answered by alco19357 5
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Yup! And one Saturday, I was taken by about 8 schoolmates up on a hill. I was tied to a tree for about six hours. I never knew if they would come back. They did. I was about 10.
I was scared to tell anyone. I just lied to my mother about being with a friend all day.
2006-07-30 04:24:47
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answered by ed 7
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I've been bullied in many ways, like people talked about me, did faces, said rumors about me, didn't like how I dressed, hated me for who I was and the intelligence I had. They didn't appreciate the grades I received, they tried to fight with me, but I ignored them and didn't care what they told me, even thought they were always making me fight with them. But one important thing to keep in mind, if You have GOD within you nothin will happen to you! Ask him to help you out, his witing for you to go ask him, his loyal, and is the best friend one have in life! Don't think this twice, if you want to enjoy school and do well, then God is your solution for problems you may confront throughout school! Keep up with him and you'll end up succeeding!
2006-07-30 04:28:34
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answered by Peter 2
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no..never been bullied...i have been made fun of in school...like we all do get that sometime....in our lives...i did. The kids made fun of me cuz I didn't fit in their clique. I had friends that were made fun of two...we all listened to rock music and dressed all in black wearing eyeliner...no longer do i do that...but i still don't fit in the clique...don't want to...im fitted into the punk clique tho i don't dress it...i have the attitude. i have alot of guy friends as much as girl friends...but not as much chick friends as preps do. i did get made of...neve been bullied. If someone was trying to bully me...i wouldn't let them..i stand my ground! This means I stand up for myself. Now, im just accepted for who I am not what i dress as. I dress in girls cloths...bright colors...but i don't dress sluty...I would dress like a normal girl would.
2006-07-30 04:23:32
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answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5
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took my lunch away n stuff...hmmm...I basically faced him myself...went up to him and told him to back off....It wasnt as good as I planned for it to be...but it worked after a while....so basically stand up for urself...cuz no one else will....why r u being bullied or something???
can I get 10 pts???
2006-07-30 04:20:58
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answered by Get a Life !!! 2
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ignore them and I never showed them that I was afraid of them.....keep cool @ all times :)......it worked for me :)....oh and never try to talk sense into them because they only get a rise out of it and they will continue to pick with you.....but if they hit you you must kick their @## and you will gain total respect after that!.....but when I think about it kids don't fight fair these days so you would fair out by just ignoring them!
2006-07-30 04:24:19
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answered by Cookie48 3
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