i'm christian & he's mosleum
2006-07-30 04:00:59 · 30 answers · asked by janno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bother. The two are incompatible and you're sure of a life of misery.
2006-07-30 04:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by corpuscollossus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the cases of serious love, i believe none has the right to decide alone, the decision should involve both of the lovers. I heard somewhere that a Muslim boy and a Christian Female can get married, but I'm not sure about it as I don't want to misguide you. And moreover as much as the religion is concerned, you can get converted into a Muslim. Ofcourse, you mentioned that he loves you very much, but you did not mention whether you love him truly and deeply or not ? If you're thinking just because he is in love with you, then be very careful, because this might be lead to a unhappy marriage for your husband as even he will be expecting love from you. But even if you are in true love with him, then go ahead, two people in love with each other make out the wonderful marriages. Take care, bye.
2006-07-30 11:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tanveer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, There's no way! That Christian & muslim will ever be compatible. My dear, better wake up! You will just persecute yourself out of miserable life. I was once married to a muslim, IT didn't work! After 7 yrs of patience, unfortunately, he just raped me and had 3 kids with him. They will mocked you and your entire family as being a Christian. They hate Christian, that's the Truth. Do yourself a favor, And if you really Love yourself, "Save it" In Jesus name! There's a lot of man around, This is really disturbing. I promise you... They talk sweet, and even use some kind of "Anting-anting! to have you. My husband is even a good looking guy but, see, There's something else,( hidden misery) So, b4 it's too late.Cut it off! It's NOT going to work. You will thank me later..(remember what I told you my friend) God Bless your descision..
2006-07-30 11:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_rey66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aloha!
This at first glance is a very complicated question.
The reality of the matter is that it's simple provided you both can take of the blinders of specific organized religion and come to a common ground that your goal is to do unto others as you would do unto you. To each day be the best individual person you can be. The honest truth is that if God created so many different people in so many different situations and places why would he allow only one way to live through him by your example. Be kind to one another and love eachother and show an example of your love. That is Gods common ground for humanity. Show love and respect and people will respond to your energy. Life would be very boring if we couldn't be individuals!
Bless you both and both of your faiths.
Live without judgement. Forgiveness and understanding fosters peace in our human spirit!
2006-07-30 11:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by mauitrb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you stay away. These religious differences are easy to put aside while the bliss of love numbs our senses. But once the first phase of love is gone, you are going to have to deal with issues that range from where you will worship to how you will raise your kids. Social , cultural and religious differences differences should not be taken lightly. Take for instance the issue of life after death. If you are going to marry someone "til death do us part", you'll want to agree on what happens next, won't you? Many religions differ on this.
2006-07-30 11:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by SolarFanatic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you love him, religion aside? Just because he is mosoleum doesnt mean you cant go out. Actually, this provides a chance to change him to Christianity, if you started to go out with him, keep quoting scripture to him, and talking to him about Christianity. The Bible says not to marry non christians, but says nothing about dating.
2006-07-30 11:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by John T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love each other, you will find a way to make it work...regardless of your individual religious beliefs. Too much is made of religion. I think what is more important is that you both have a belief in a higher power, and, whats more, that you love each other and want to try again.
2006-07-30 11:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is if he is a true Muslim you will always be property to him. Muslim men are raised to be very sexist and to firmly believe in women as second class citizens. If you are willing to be treated in this way, go for it. Of course if you are both true believers you will have to both accept that part of your respective religions is that the other will go to hell.
2006-07-30 11:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It is really up to the fact that are either of you willing to change for the other or not, I am dating someone with a different faith than what I was brought up with and we had children that I am currently bringing up in her faith but am constantly letting them know there fathers side as well.....its a choice I made because I am in love with her and My strength in my belief was sadly not very strong.......
2006-07-30 11:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by lost&confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your saying he is muslim yes that is a problem but if your bound to let religion decide your relationship then it is better to not be together. It sounds like he is flexible but that your not willing to meet any where in between.
2006-07-30 11:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not to date non-christians. You can date cathlics and close related religions like that. But tell him you can't. Talk to him about it. Talk to him about God and your religion for about a month and if he shows changes in religion then keep telling him about it. If not then tell him you can't be together because of it. But don't change yours.
2006-07-30 11:05:49 · answer #11 · answered by www.fantasygrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋