So i really like this guy...and he likes me too...but he is making all these excuses not to go out with me...
whats up with that?
what should i do?
2006-07-30 03:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by girlzrule1221 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else!!!! Time to move on!!!! NEXT
2006-07-30 03:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by mywaypink 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
well are u sure he likes u and ur not just seeing that. if a guy likes u and u ask him out he should go 4 it. a girl who can come up to a guy and twll him whats up is very impressive and shows the guy u r confident and brave.the only time i make excuses is when i like the girl as just a friend and have my eyes on another.so im going to say hes not really feeling u.u know what i know that if he does like u and not feelin u he might just not c it.so u need to move on and c what he thinks bout that.he might not like it and then come running to u.it happens alot i seen it.so good luck
2006-07-30 10:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure he is into you??? I would think that if he really likes you like you think he does then he would be jumping on the chance to hang out with you, which he isn't. So I would rethink your thought of him liking you. Maybe he likes you but just not in the way your thinking. So I would ask him one time more to see if he was interested in doing something with you and if he says no move on and find a guy who is really digging ya....and just can't get enough of what you have to offer him.
2006-07-30 11:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the only guy in the world, that you really like.
You sound real young,
How can you say I really like him when you have had no real contact, one on one alone that is you have not even gone out with him.
Go out with some one you like and that person also likes you enough to go out with you .
Good luck.
Minoo
2006-07-30 11:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people would tell you they like you but really don't. They may like you but not in the way you thought to be.
Going out is something serious already coz it leads to something romantic. this guy may not be ready to go there.
Cheer up! theres plenty of other guys to come.
2006-07-30 10:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by arthurmljr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're not excuses girl. he really do not want to go out with you. if i were you, i'll ask another guy out hehehe. it's his loss. seriously girl if a guy say no then it means "no". move on with the next guy who's waiting to be asked by you on a date.
2006-07-30 10:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by esquivel_mm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch "Grease." Guys are all lovey-dovey when they're alone with you, but near their friends, they are aloof and distant. Maybe he's scared, maybe he's not ready, or maybe he's an idiot. At any rate, TALK TO HIM. Find out what his deal is, and then go from there.
2006-07-30 10:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that that's fine and realize that there's nothing that you can do. If doesn't want to date you then he has to have a reason. Maybe he just is not ready to tell you the answer to your question.
2006-07-30 10:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it probably means he doen't want to be with you. But you can always ask him yourself. Butt you deserve someone better. So I would just forget about him and move on.
2006-07-30 11:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out whether he is married or not. if no, try to know what's going on, and tell him about your feeling. he will go out with you if he loves you.
2006-07-30 11:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ray N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hey doesn't really like you, maybe he just said that to not hurt your feelings.
2006-07-30 10:54:09 · answer #11 · answered by malcam_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋