I'm 17 years old and I have a bestfriend who has been around me for 2 years. I had no intention of falling in love but I did. We fight about once a week. What should I do, am I in the right track.
2006-07-30 03:43:32 · 8 answers · asked by Flordeluna A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really Moy? His eyes will get bigger but what if he has been with me for so long that excitement is long past. Can you love without excitement. INFATUATION IS A KIND OF LOVE OK. I don't want to get married. What I want to know is how do I get him to express his love if he is really in love. Thanks but is there a way we can turn this situation around.
2006-07-30 18:26:47 · update #1
it sounds like you're in a predicament. guys are told that best friends will never fall in love with them. hence, when they make a female friend, they usually keep it at a platonic level. try to give him hints that you like him. if he thinks you're ugly/not up to him, it'll probably creep the hell outta him and he won't talk to you until you act normal again. if he thinks you're a nice and pretty girl, i guess it can start from there.
2006-07-30 05:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by onomatopoeia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 its so hard to tell. But it is so wonderful to try and figure it out. Does he really care about you? Does he lift you up or put you down? There is SO much in front of you, don't worry. Have fun, fall in love, fall out of love. Look within.
2006-07-30 11:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by jaybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not define fighting once a week with someone as "love." Re-evaluate this relationship and look at what he does for you. If the positive FAR outweighs the negative, then go for it. If the negative FAR outweighs the positive, keep him as a friend or dump him.
2006-07-30 10:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into his eyes....if he's in love with you.....then his pupils will be dialated(bigger) due to excitement. This is a sure shot way of finding out without asking.
2006-07-30 10:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is willing to do anything for you in a time of need then this person is in love with you.
2006-07-30 10:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you fight now you'll fight later and they will get nastier. Leave and find another
2006-07-30 10:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Binky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him that u feel like ur falling in love with him/her then ask him/her if he/she feels its true.
2006-07-30 10:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that you love your friend ????
It may be just an infactuation...
2006-07-30 10:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋