2006-07-30 03:40:32 · 23 answers · asked by himu_cris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you scare women off because you may declare you undying love way too soon into a relationship, if so, you need to hold back, take things slowly!
You many find that you need to change the way that you treat a woman, maybe ask your friends to be honest and tell you where you are going wrong, then you can try again, If your really brave you could ask an ex girlfriend, it's always best to get to the bottom of these problems early on before they damage your confidence!
Goodluck with it all!
2006-07-30 03:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well my friend. Love is unconditional. It is something that you can't rush or put a time table on. It is something that can't be learned, can't be taught, can't be sold and can't be bought. As the song goes you can't hurry love you just have to wait. As far as looks go, when it comes to true love physical appearance has nothing to do with it. You've probably heard this one before but it is not what a person appears on the outside, it is what's in their heart that really matters. I was once married to a very attractive woman. In my heart I knew I shouldn't have married her because we came from two entirely different backgrounds. however, all of my buddies went on about how attractive she was and how crazy I would've been not to marry her. I went on and married her. Shortly after we were married she began to show her true colors. As it turned out she was a sneaky, evil, trifling, compulsive, untrustworthy, liar. Although she was beautiful on the outside she was ugly on the inside. In the final days leading up to our divorce (which I filed for) I hated to even look her. From then on my whole perspective on woman changed and I realized what was really important and what true love was really about. As a Christian man I believe that God has someone special for everyone. You will just have to wait for that special someone to come along. It took some time but I have since remarried. The Lord has answered my prayers and blessed me with a wonderful wife. She is honest, caring, compassionate and first and foremost trustworthy. These are the things what make a person really attractive (even though my wife is attractive). I love my wife and she loves me. If he can do it for me I know he can do it for you as well. Hang in there. I will be praying for you.This is the Caveman signing out. Peace and God bless.
2006-07-30 10:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't about how attractive you are. Sure it helps to be drop dead gorgeous, but you can get around that easily. What really matters with most women is being a complete gentlemen. A gentleman assures for the comfort of ladies. That doesnt mean you have to be whipped. it means that you have to be considerate and above all sweet. cause every girl wants a prince charming.
And theres one more trick, it is the most important- confidence. withought confidence no one will fall in love with you. so when you are around girls that you like, repeat this in your head: "i am sexy and every girl wants me" if you do that then you will see a big difference. trust me.
good luck, my friend!
2006-07-30 10:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by nerdtron3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo, falling in love is a serious thing, you can't just make someone fall in love with you... wait it out, eventually you'll find someone that will love you for you... and care about you as well... they won't matter what you look like on the outside.. the inside matters most
2006-07-30 10:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having a relationship before you think about falling in love or someone falling in love with you
2006-07-30 10:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Don't be yourself. its false when people say be yourself. Pretend you are the most handsome in the world and act jolly and alive. Treat anyone nicely, show them you care. (Even if you don't really care just show them). I met a lot of boys like that and its effective.
Second, boast of your achievements but in a humble tone. It works well.
Third, focus on a girl and make her happy CONSISTENTLY. Go with her often. When you do this, you will fall in love in one month average.
2006-07-30 10:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Flordeluna A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you can't buy love. But you can rent it. Lower you expectations. Start going on blind dates with blind women. Throw your pride right out the door. Start dating Illegall alliens. Get alot of plasic surgerey. Win the mega Lotto. I'm sure if you use this formula you will find love or love will find you.
2006-07-30 11:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is the key for the girls to be attracted to you. Don't go out there looking for "love". It will happen when it happens. Have fun, learn from mistakes, don't worry about if you ugly or not. You think your hot.....girls will notice that. Just don't be cocky about it. Good Luck!
2006-07-30 10:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by Spicer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i got a girl friend and i am a little over weight... dude some times you have to act mature, yet funny, but not at the wrong times.
the point is its not how "ugly" other think you are its how ugly you think you are
2006-07-30 10:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by n8_ruler_of_the_world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu just wait its just not your time yet foucus on other things and when you least expect it your love will come to you, thats the problem theze days you can't go looking for love, like you go looking for sex you'll catch sumthin
2006-07-30 11:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋