2006-07-30 03:39:34 · 19 answers · asked by potdoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Split the tickets just like you split the relationship, go and find a new friend while you are out there.
2006-07-30 03:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by American Pride 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First question you have to ask yourself is 'do I love him?' If not, then you have your answer. I personally think you should not go as if you spend the whole holiday arguing then it will be a disaster and you won't be able to escape and go home. Statistics also show that a holiday together is quite intense as you are together 24/7. This would certainly not give you a new start as it would be doomed straight away (my opinion anyway). If you decide to have a new start with him, then do it at home where you can escape and not be in each other's pockets all the time - a recipe for disaster! However, it is your decision and only you can make it. Good luck whatever you decide.
2006-07-30 03:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel the holiday for a start- there's plenty of time to book another if things work out, that way you wont be liable to pay for it.. If you and him are alays at each others throats why not just sit down and have a heart to heart? There must be a reason for all this upset? Maybe he is just as fed up as you are and wants to get to the bottom of what's triggering these bad feelings.
It all depends how much you feel foe and love that person and how much you are willing to do to improve things. Arguements are healthy in any relationship but there has to be resolve otherwise you will end up blaming each other and resenting one another.
Don't be victims just sit down and be civil, if you cant work it out just call it a day it's not the end of the world..
2006-07-30 04:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go on the holiday. There is nothing like a holiday to test relationships. If you have paid for the holiday then go and enjoy it. If he gets on your nerves too much, spend lots of time on your own and get to know some other people and break up when you get home.
2006-08-01 00:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say arguement is a spice in a relationship for you to know each other, but constant arguement is a sign unsettled relationship. Do you think you would be with the man and argue constantly for the rest of your life? This is the things you have to ask yourself, is there in anyway you can both worked it out?? but in a relationship if you have love with each other, you must have trust, communication, and respect.
2006-07-31 21:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by wala_lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you live with this guy???if not,and you argue when your not living together what do you think it would be like whilst on holiday together 24/7...
why not get a friend to pay for his half of the hol and go with her,take the time apart to reflect on the relationship...is he really what you want??? why would you want to be with someone when all you do is argue???
there really are plenty more fish in the sea...dont settle for second best,you only get one shot at life! BE HAPPY!!!
2006-07-31 03:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by magpie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is what you argue about important? Are you just picking at each other? What made you attracted to him in the first place? Is it still there? Are the things you argue about major?
Do you care for him? He wants to keep trying... so you need to think this through... Why do you argue? Stress from work? Is it each other? Do you love him? What is happening?
I have to go back to square one. What attracted me to him in the first place? What was there? "Familiarity breeds contempt." So the more you know someone the easier it is to get lost from what made you love them in the first place.
Remember, what made you love him is still there somewhere and the stuff you hate was there when you fell in love.
2006-07-30 03:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband or your best friend you caught your husband in bed with. They may have a better idea of what to do with your bloke you split up from.
2006-08-02 21:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bajan Deane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going to constantly argue, it wont be a holiday will it. you will both end up making each other miserable. or do you both want to give it another go? if not just share the accomodation and go off and do your own thing.
2006-08-02 10:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by MICHAELA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't worth it. A holiday is meant to be relaxing and a chance to re-charge your batteries - sounds like this could/would be the holiday from hell. If you really don't think you two have a future suggest that that is just the place for him to go with his idea.
(If you really want him back though - don't listen to me - go)
2006-08-01 00:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋