I think I like my friend as more then a friend. What should I do?

Question

I dont know what I should do b/c my friend thinks im hot but I dont know if he really likes me or just wants a hot girl to hang out with? He would sometime call me and ask me if I want to go to his place and "Chill"? But what does he mean by Chill I have only been to his house once.

Answer 1

Ur not gonna find out what he wants 4rom u until u actually accept his invitation. Maybe he wants to go out with u but is 2 shy 2 ask directly.
Try droppin hints around him like "I got invited to a party and i don't know who to go with" or "do u think friends shud date each other" or "i'd like to get to know u better".
Try datin another guy to make him jealous or if he still doesn't get the message, ask him out instead. U don't have to wait 4 him to ask u out.
If it doesn't work out, u can always revert back to ur friendship, instead but at least both will be clear about ur intentions.
C'mon, go ahead and try it out and tell us if it works out

Answer 2

Aloha!
Well it seems to me from the question you posted that you might be a young lady.
Be careful. Sounds like he may be a bit older than you and if you are young and still in school it is very different for someone older already on their own to invite you to "chill at "his place" compared to going to visit with someone your own age that still lives at home. Good guys or not we always want and are hormonally programmed to have sex. Take care of yourself, ask your girlfriends advice and if you still decide spend time with him bring around some of your friends. Don't put yourself in an environment where you are around all strangers.
Lot's of good guys out there but respect yourself and let him live up to the opportunity to treat you with respect.
I'm a guy I'm 32 and have lived some life. I'ts ok to cut loose a bit but do it smart!

Answer 3

Be careful, If he is a really good friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship then think about what you want from him. If you really like him enough to know that no matter what happens you guys would still be friends then find out if he likes you in that way from other people. Dig around a little first. And do you trust him enough to know that he would not use you for sex? Go with what you feel is right but before you make a move find out how he feels about you first. GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 4

There are several things you could do.

Talk to him and ask him what he would like, or tell him how you feel.

You could say if he wants to be your boyfriend, or he wants you to be his girlfriend , you'd be interested, and if not you'd still like to be friends.

If you both want to be more than firends, it would be a shame if both of you were too inhibited to make it happen.

Or you could do somthing, like take his hand when you are walking or do something else effectionate and see what happens.

Or you could get a third person to ask him what he feels or to tell him how you feel and that you'd like to know how he feels.

But the best way is probably just to talk to him, telling him the most important thing (if it is) is you'd like remain friends, but that you feel more than that, and want to know if he does also, as specific as you can.

I suspect "chill" means hang out together, spend time together?
But again the ;simplest way is if he asks you again, to ask him what he has in mind?

Answer 5

Are you looking for a guy that cares for you in a loving way? Or are you just one of those girls that likes hot guys and wants to have sex every single day and hopefully get S.T.D?

Well if he thinks your hot then you should ask him "What else about me that you like?" You also-If you want to be with him- learn about his history of having Girlfriends. Did he treat them well? Did he cheat on them, what did he do and who dumped who?

Again depending on how long you know him take it slow, start a conversation and do not jump right into the "I really like you" part or any other things that can add up to you dating him.

Also if a guy only thinks your hot and will only go out with you for that reason then... unless your a Hoe, he isn't the one for you.

Answer 6

I think this means that he is interested in you, which is good news for you, so I would say, take a chance, tell him how you feel, failing that you should just flirt with him, leading up to kissing him, that should do the trick. The thing is, you don't want to remain friends with him for to long, because men tend to accept you as friends after that, then there's no way back. So go for it now! And of course, Good luck!

Answer 7

Enjoy hanging out with him and see what happens. But keep your "boundaries", know what I mean?? You don't want him to take advantage of your friendship just to get to what he thinks is "hot". If he wants to be more than friends, you'll probably figure that out. Respect yourself, whatever you do! Guys will only treat you as good as you train them to!

Answer 8

How about you ask him how he feels about you. You tell him how you feel . If you don't try you will never know and always ask your self what could it had been like . You might hit it off great and then again you will find out if you should just stay freind because he is gay?

Answer 9

He wants to hang out with you. Nothing in particular. But I caution, you said he thinks you're "hot". Be careful he is not wanting to have sex because of your looks and what it may arose in him. A relationship is based on sooooooo much more than sex if you are wanting to hook up with him. Something to keep in mind.

Answer 10

If he want to chill alone he prob likes you u, if theres mad dudes there when u chill beware, but there is nothin better than girl who is strait forward if u like him tell him