I've been with this guy for a year. We dont go out that much coz career comes first for him. He talks to me very often even if it's nonsense. He likes to kiss me very often. He likes to be updated of what is happening to me especially if I have problems. He also likes to surprise me even in little ways. Before he left for his vacation out of the country, he insisted in taking me home so he can personally say good bye to me and right now, Im trying to figure out if he loves me back by not calling him, and the result...he's the one who's calling at least once a week. He didn't tell me "i love you" yet until but he told me "I like you" but just once. I understand that he has high dreams but I also want to know if Im important to him? He's not going out with other girls, he hates womanizers. So do you think he loves me or he just like me? Im finding it hard to figure out coz I dont know if he's just not showy of his feelings or what....All answers will be appreciated...
2006-07-30 03:08:45 · 17 answers · asked by sleixy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just wants sex.
2006-07-30 03:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are giving this guy "fits" what he is wanting right now. You are okay with being second to his job, most women would not be. You are patiently waiting to hear him say something, most women would have asked or just moved on. If you are happy then stay with this guy. You are not getting hurt. But please be honest with yourself. If you are wanting more and he does not (and it doesn't seem like he does in my opinion) then do yourself a favor; move on before you end up heartbroken.
This man likes you enough to spend "extra" time with you. But not enough to make time for you. I personally think he is just not that into you.
I have really high standards when it comes to men and how I am treated by them. I don't mean I am a b!t@h^ princess or anything. But I do expect full respect from a man. And if I am not completely happy with where things are going I cut him lose and find another man. I do not call men. I do not see them more than once or twice in a week. I make sure the plans we are making are not last minute and that he has planned to see me. There is more but too much details for something like this.
And the biggest thing to remember...if he hasn't said it...he isn't ready to say it and therefore is not ready to feel it. He likes you. I am not sure how much. He does not or at least is not ready to love you hon.
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2006-07-30 10:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by katameeli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves me he loves me not? That's the question right? Well, you can just ask the guy face to face to make yourself clear is he love you or not. The thing that matter most now I think is " Do you love this man?" It's no point if he loves you but you don't have the same feeling for him. Love need to be give & take for both side. You cannot meassure love by who is doing more to make the relationship work. Good luck!!!
2006-07-30 10:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not certain what to make of this guy. It is obvious that he has feelings for you but the fact that you don't go out together often after a year together is suspicious. How much do you know about his personal life? While he's away, take the time to investigate and get all the information that you can about him.
2006-07-30 10:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you have tested his interest level in you by not calling him. When it comes to situations like this, I would just wait it out until he tells you he loves you. Cause at this point you wouldn't want to assume things cause assuming could possibly lead to destruction in your relationship. I am kinda in the same situation and I just test him in different environments. For example, if we go to a party or an outing with different people we go in separate cars but I don't approach him until he approaches me just to see if he is even going to notice me or if he is going to act as if he don't know me. But this guy definitely likes you it is just hard to figure out the "love" thing. But to guys I love you is like the hardest thing to say and girls are kinda more venerable when it comes to saying those BIG 3 words.
2006-07-30 10:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by tootie252003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy to say anything. you need to use your brain now. Test him and check out if he really loves you.
As you know him better, plan out certain situations between you and him where leave decisive moves on him. Then judge if the step he took was in your favour or his...
if he'll be seriously in love with you, surely he will do something that will only be good for your present and future.
Best of Luck...
2006-07-30 10:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up he doesnt jus wanna have sex.
If he takes care of your small things and as far as i get from your description... HE LOVES YOU.
And remember ACTION SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS so it doesnt matter if he says the words or not... he might be a little shy..... DONT BREAK HIS HEART.
Its very difficult to find a person who truely loves you
2006-07-30 10:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, at this point, he just likes you. once he makes some sacrifice for you then it would be something to think about. arrange a date, see what come first. if has to pick his work over you then. there you go. he loves his work more than you.
2006-07-30 10:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guyz don't show their feeling but it is not because he doesn't love you he is just scared to show you that he is a softy.If he makes you happy that's all you need to be happy love is very complicated that is why man prefer friendship just show him you appreciate him you Will see magic
2006-07-30 10:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys hide there feelings and guard them way to well. Give him time, don't force it or you will loose him!
2006-07-30 10:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me someone who has efforts like that loves you...but the real question is does he love you enough to deserve you?
2006-07-30 10:14:50 · answer #11 · answered by akasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋