Ok, I really hate this. IF YOU THINK YOU ARE PREGNANT, GO FIND OUT. Get off the computer and go get a at home test from the stupid store.
Ok, other than that. Look I'm 17, I had my son when I was 16. I thought my mom would disown me and all my friends would hate me. But my mother ended up just saying that she would but not doing it. She was actually trying to scare me away from getting pregnant and what not. But I did actually loose most of my friends. but i found out who my real ones were.
If your mother does disown you. There are places for teenage mothers. They are not horrible. But if you need some help or someone to talk to that been there... just email or im me. It's reynacatherinelopez@yahoo.com.
Oh, this may or may not make you feel any better but, my cousin Kristi had her first child when she had barely turned 14. Everything turned out ok for her so they could turn out just fine for you. Now go get a test done or something.... talk to your mom.
2006-07-30 03:15:06
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all sex is for married people. You say you wanted to make your boyfriend happy right? Well, how happy do you think he is going to be if you are pregnant? The only advice I can give you is to talk to your parents or a family member. If you want to things grown ups do then you should be willing to act like a grownup and own up to your responsibilites. It is very possible that you may be pushing the panic button a bit too soon, however, if you and your boyfriend hadn't been playing around with sex you wouldn't have to be going through all this now would you. Another thing, if you are pregnant, I'm sure your mom will be a bit disappointed but I seriously doubt if she will disown you. I will be praying that everything goes well for you. I hope you learn from this mistake. Peace and God bless. There is one more thing I want to tell you before I go. Never give out your age. There are a lot of online predators who mean you more harm then good. Peace.
2006-07-30 03:17:07
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answered by cave man 6
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when i had sex with my GF and even she was some 3 days late for the periods we were worried but i helped her out, i got her a pregenancy check kit, and she was pregenent. i took her, not to a docter but to a cyber cafe and found out the remide, hence act fast and if you turn out to be pregenent you could get rid of it at home itself by a pill that works only if u are within 50 days of pregenency. u will get these pills in any of the medical shop. all u have to ask for the early abortion pills. it is a set of three tablets,. when you will take the first pill this will stop the growth of the baby inside and after 24 hrs you have to take the rest 2 pills and the next day onwards you will start you period which will be a bit darker then usual and will last for about 15 days so do keep the pads ready. and next time be careful, either take pills or use condoms or dont allow him to ejuculate inside you
take care and let him know of this situation, he should help u as he was equaly involved for this situation.
2006-07-30 03:23:42
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answered by Aman Kumar 1
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you have all these emotions and yes life can get really hurting but we all get through it.
we all make bad choices and at 14 is not a time to do the adult thing.
but what is important now is if you are pregnant you got to tell mom and your dad.
You have two choices keep the baby or place it into adoption so a family that want to give the baby a good life can have the blessing of have a baby.
If you decided to keep the baby your life will be rough and at times unbearable but not horrible if you take it at a step at a time.
Abortion is NOT an option and any one that tells you it is is a fool and works for satan.
keep in touch with me and let me know what happens.
The boy whatever age is now financially responsible to you and the baby, BUT don't be surprise if he disappears and does not contribute.
Not all men will and some will stay for alternative reasons, be weary
My prayers are with you
Its a good time to go to church and keep your legs crossed till you are married 6 years from now or more.
my email is in my blog.
My life - see my blog
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http://thehomelessguy.blogspot.com
2006-07-30 17:02:58
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answered by Anonymous
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If you think that elevating a child as a unmarried mom might be high-quality then that's all that issues. No subject what you do, different humans may have an opinion. They may not be residing along with your resolution both manner, handiest you and the youngster shall be.Do what's high-quality for you and the youngster. Culture performs a side in what's well and unhealthy and so does the household and neighborhood society you're in. Sometimes humans must transfer clear of oppressive occasions to elevate their youngsters competently.
2016-08-28 15:39:31
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answered by ? 4
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Why would you want to kill yourself.If the two of you have had intercourse with no protection before your missed period then you should worry.2 days late that not that bad if your a week late then you should be afraid.That boy needs to rub his stick on a tree.You are too young to be having sex and to know what true love really is.If you are going to do it anyway that boy should care for you enough to want to wear a condom.To care enough not to get you pregnant.I had my first child at 17 and she's 13 now but i still think that 17 was still young.If it turns out you get your period are you going to do this risky behavior again?Or are you going to love yourself more and see that the Vagina you have is your flower and precious that no one is going to tamper with untill you grow like a flower as a person.If you tell him you want him to use protection and he doesn't want to he don't care about you.Is he going to support this baby?Does he have a job?Will he still even be there if you are?Can he even get a job?Think of those things and instead of wanting to make him happy make yourself happy first.
2006-07-30 03:10:08
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answered by redanimalmuppet 3
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taking a test is the only way to know. Since you kow how a baby can be made, yeah yeah you are horny, TAKE precautions. Get on some birth control. You can get that at a local planned parenthood. If you cant do that call your doctor and tell them your situation, they can figure it out. You shouldnt only be worried about pregnancy though. STDs are running rampant nowadays. Condom is the best thing.
2006-07-30 03:11:27
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answered by Tian 3
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You didn't have to do that to keep him happy. There are other ways to keep someone happy. Remember this. You should go to the doctor with him and check. Find out what can you do. If you are, that boy better make sure he steps up to the plate. He gotta be a man, straight. You guys chose this to begin with. It's time to take responsibity. If he turns you down, he's a coward. I wish you my very best. Good Luck, girl!
2006-07-30 03:13:58
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answered by Drivliam 6
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If you feel sex is "dirty" you are too young to understand, and you shouldn't be doing anything. You sound scared, and I'm sorry for the lecture. Yes, you can get pregnant, without having him insert fully, but, only if he ejaculated into your canal. Sperm swims strongly, but dies whe air hits it, so your chances of being prgnant are one in thousands. You are only 2 days late, and stress will stop your period. Go take a nice warm bubble bath. Drink warm tea. Relax! Your period is coming. Give it time. Please don't go worrying everybody by telling them you are pregnant. And you stop worrying too, you'll be OK.
2006-07-30 03:12:17
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answered by Laurie 3
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Well, if he ejaculated in you, then you could be pregnant. But just wait a couple of days to see if your period will come on, because you might just be stressed. That happens sometimes. And if you do end up pregnant, then there are options, like adoption or maybe your parents won't be as upset as you think and will accept this child.
2006-07-30 03:11:45
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answered by Miss MMM 2
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