I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy. We met end of April, a very intense and mutual encounter. He lives in the US, I live in Europe. He visited me almost a month ago, he'll visit me again in 3 weeks. Lately, he's not making contact. Writing just 3-4 sentences emails, no text messaging, no messenger (we never did use the messenger). I understand he may not be too talkative, but still don't know what to make of his behavior. He's travelling to Europe 2 times in 2 months, to see me, but while in US he barely contacts me. Don't even know if he's ok. Don't even know if he cares at all about me. I feel I am being taken for a fool. I'm puzzled. Any ideas on men behavior?
2006-07-30 02:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamie Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for giving me your thoughts. The thought that he may not be single, or that he might have met someone new since his last visit (3 weeks ago) did cross my mind. I'm gonna wait and see if he comes to visit again, and then I should know more.
I do have a question though: should I confront him in any way? Asking him why he doesn't write or make contact? Or just let him be? What would he think of me, either way?
2006-07-30 03:16:43 · update #1
wiat and see if he returns for his second visit to decide if you've been used or takin for a fool ,,, if he shows up your good ,,, and yes men are sometime like that not very talkative ,,, unless it deals with sex ,,,lol
2006-07-30 03:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the man is using you for a casual relationship only when necessary, like when he is in Europe he needs a free place to stay. No mentions of using a phone to call him - emails and texts are easier to hide or delete without being caught by the other woman/women in the US.
2006-07-30 03:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is coming to see you - you should be happy about that! Some guys just don't communicate a lot. But, he does communicate with you and visit with you. If he didn't care about you, he would not bother with any visits or emails.
2006-07-30 02:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont they just think if they keep u thinkin ur goin out u will be faitful while they r seeing someone else
2006-07-30 02:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he is not a writing-kind of guy
2006-07-30 02:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the one to tell you, but he's already found someone new.
2006-07-30 02:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men r like this. accept them or leave them alone.
2006-07-30 02:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t think it´s possible
2006-07-30 02:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy Nerd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's single?
2006-07-30 02:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Viv C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋