She is elder than me 3 years.She often behaves as she is my lover.We sometimes use to go out.But sometimes she behaves as she doesn't love me but never shows she hates me.So I've become confused.I can't directly propose her because she is elder than me & if she refuses me!I don't wana to lose her.Now plz tell me does she love me & what should I do?I really love her very much!
2006-07-30 02:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by tarekmonsur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TALK TO HER! Good grief what is it with people who leave questions on here but won't TALK to the one that can actually HELP! Talk to her - and to all others who have lovers who they don't know if they are in love, or want to marry, or seem to ignore them, or are in love with someone else - TALK TO THEM! NOT TO US...TALK TO THEM! AND GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-30 02:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she your lover?You should just ask her if she loves you.Why can't you propose if she is elder than you?Religion or something?If she refuses you at least you know you tried your best.If you love her then ask her to marry you.I don't really know how old you two are.My man is 6 years younger then me and we been together for years.How does she behave like she doesn't love you?Life is short and just ask her if she does.If she does and the two of you are old enough don't let 3 years age difference be a factor.Don't let anything or anyone stop love if it's true love.You should let her know how you feel before someone else does.Good luck
2006-07-30 02:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u havn't said wht made u to think that she loves u and she doen't love u. anyway if u really want to know
1.directly ask her.
2. don't go with her to any place and just ignore her for sometime and be close with another girl or just act if she becomes jealous u can understand. if she behaves the same and angry with u then also she loves u . if she is very happy for u as u have got a girl friend then it's not love.
all the best.
2006-07-30 03:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is 11 yrs elder than me and we are doing great and sounds like she is waiting for you to make the next move and take the relationship to the next step. So go for it jump in with 2 feet and take the plunge and see were it goes
2006-07-30 02:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way for you to find out is ask her. maybe she thinks of you as a friend or a younger brother. But maybe not? ask her!!!
2006-07-30 02:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dsnt matter if ure a guy or woman to make the frst move now does it matter if ure younger or older thn ure partner ..u love her u want hwer ....go and tell her...simple
2006-07-30 02:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why? I feel dumber now that i tried to understand what you were saying. the answer you seek is bang her and move on.
2006-07-30 02:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by soollddiieerr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure u will be able to find it easily. she has so many barriers to love u and the most important is her age.
2006-07-30 02:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does her being older than you have to do with anything?Either she does or she don't.
2006-07-30 02:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she love u very much.
2006-07-30 02:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sujay Kumar C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋