I should go to out of my country 2cause of my job and future career.also I dont wanna stay ın here anymore not feel happy.but I dont wanna leave from my famıly specıally my mom.I dont know what am I supposed to do.pls someone helpppppppp
2006-07-30 02:09:28 · 8 answers · asked by feel_the_fire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
how old are you,what country are you from and whats so bad about were you are right now?????????
2006-07-30 02:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home and visit at least once a year. In the mean time, use the internet to chat (text, voice, and video!) online with your family, send photos etc. I've been away from home for nearly 9 years. However, sometimes it can be difficult to live far from home. When my mother died, I couldn't go home to the funeral because my wife was 9 months pregnant and couldn't fly, and I was afraid if I went to the funeral she'd have the baby while I was gone. Sometimes I'm too busy or too poor to go home, and it may be two years before my next visit. I haven't seen my oldest brother since 1998!
2006-07-30 02:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by crispy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter where you are your family will always be there for you and love you. You have to grow sometime im sure your mum understands this as she only wants whats best for you. You will miss them they will miss you but you can phone them chat on net web cam visit sometime or your mum could visit you. If your mum is on her own may be she would like to join you. Don't feel guilty if you leave as its your future and one day you will be married with a family of your own, and your children may wish to do same, you wont want let go but you know you have to.Its a learning experience in life we all go thru.
2006-07-30 02:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey ,you are just suppose to follow your heart!!! Mom and the family will be alright!!!! Pray and ask God to protect them and keep them as well as you safe ,while you are on your journey!!! Let Mom know that you love her and you will keep in touch as much as possible and visit ,when time permits!!!! She will probably feel hurt at first but when she realizes she raised you with good morals and respect,That will speak enough for itself!!!! Trust me, I have a son way over in Germany and who is going to Iraq in September !!!And I learned to lean on the Lord and pray for his safety!!! My son emails me as much as possible and calls me at least three times a week I get comfort out of knowing that he's gonna be just fine,Trust me that's what keeps me going !!!! your Mom will be just fine ,Best wishes!!!
2006-07-30 02:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sit and priortise.
see what is more important for you and then take a call!!
i know how difficult it is to leave back a family,you've grown with to a completly new country,you should try to get something in your home town but if not then you need to realise sweetie,that no gains without pains!!
2006-07-30 02:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to live your own life . If your not happy here in the USA then leave . First you should learn to speak and write English . It was a mess what you wrote .
2006-07-30 02:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just going threw some thing right now!!!!You/ll be allright dont leave the country.Trust me make good decisions in life dont just jump every time you have a probablem!!!!!!!!!!!!!Do you actually think leaving would be the best answer?Talk to your mom and I think you'll be ok.She loves you wants the best for you!Remember MAKE GOOD DECISIONS!!!The rest of your life depends on it!!!!!!
2006-07-30 02:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince them to go with you.
2006-07-30 03:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋