ladys' i'm sure you agree... we tend to pick bad ones.... so how do we attract the right ones?
2006-07-30 02:07:33 · 8 answers · asked by babyphatdeem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there aren't any good ones! only us! the very bad ones!
2006-07-30 02:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Never judge a book buy it's cover! You gotta read the pages! If you go out lookin like trash you're gonna pick up the garbage man! Hey isn't it us ladies that always tell these guys we like the "bad" boys!?? Then when they find us and they act "bad" we blame them! Physical beauty is nice but inner beauty is more important! When they're a combination , WOW! Think about the kind of guy you are looking for . What would attract "him" to you!? Probably the same things that are in him that would attract him to you, would be the same traits in you that would attract "you" to him!So be the person you're looking for! Most likely, he'll be somebody you wouldn't expect at a time when you wouldn't expect him, in a place where you least expect to be! Just "be" who you are, inside and out! He'll see!
2006-07-30 08:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you are looking for a guy to pick, you're gonna be disappointed. You need to relax, sit back, and live your life. Get involved with different activities that interest you. Join a local sports team, volunteer, martial arts, aerobics, etc... If you are enjoying life, the right guys will find you. You'll also make some new friends along the way.
If you get lonely and just want someone for the night, then go find a bad one. LOL.
2006-07-30 02:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by brew_1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the right kind of guy is. If you want a guy with money, just smile and be as pretty as you can be. If you want a guy that will treat you right. You know the ones that want to be your best friend. Look for the shy type. don't worry they will come out of their shyness once they get to know you but most will not approach you first especially if if they think that you are beautiful. You have to be out going and friendly.
2006-07-30 02:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by brb_rrb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah we all do but inorder to attract the right ones we should look in the right places for them. Another tip on this is that we should dress decent and carry about ourselves in an appropriate manner. Decent guys always look for a decent women rather than a scandalous one ok. i'm not saying that we can dress sexy but in a decent and pleasant way
2006-07-30 02:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on where you met them I guess. If you met a guy at the bar, who the bartenders know by name then ... he might not be the best. If you are religous then pick one up at church. I mean there are crack addict woman abusers at church, but I'm sure there are far less than decent guys.
2006-07-30 02:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying till u find the right 1. if u want a decent sober type try to dress like a slut u no what i mean
2006-07-30 02:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by suf_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and stop trying to attract anyone.. a good cake would always be eatten even if it didn't look too good.. but you might only get to taste a great lookin cake and not even like it much.
2006-07-30 02:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋