Why do Aussie girls just give it up so easily, don't they know that virginity for a girl was placed there for a reason, why is it so hard to find a girl that understands the laws of nature, putting aside Muslim girls because 99% of them know and don't give it up till they marry the man they love...II don't want to marry a Muslim girl, I'm all Aussie and I want to marry an aussie girl, my parents are Egyptian Muslim, that doesn't mean I have to marry an Egyptian Muslim, Islam gives men to marry from other religion but not visa versa.. Do Aussie girls know that there are guys out there that don't want to do it unless they marry and before hand truly fall in love.. Don't they think that some guys look down at girls that sleep with men even if they have fallen in love even after a long relationship ?? why o why o why, I want to marry a beautiful smart Aussie girl that understands this.. is it impossible to find her?? Please no jokes as I get a kick out of reporting abuse!
2006-07-30 01:57:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm Australian...Anglo is what you mean right? since you're an Aussie yourself. Not all Anglo Aussies sleep around..yes there are virgins in the church but since you're a Muslim, I don't see you hanging out at Christian churches. lol Not to worry as us virgins are also outside the church. :)
I choose to remain one out of respect for myself and as I didn't know how many bfs I would have before marriage, I couldn't imagine sleeping with more than one guy, the thought made me sick. Sex is special and something very intimate. Though most people see sex these days as just a physical act ..like an exercise.
I'm very glad I waited as I have met the man of my dreams, who I one day will marry and he treats me like a princess. Even though he didn't go looking for a virgin and had other gfs that were not one..I know that he has so much respect for me and is proud of me being one. After being with me, he no longer has much respect for women that sleep around. As much as women hate hearing this and that's why you got so many nasty replies...men still do want a virgin, it's just that it's harder these days to find one. so they have no choice but to go with a non-virgin.
Anyways, good luck to you, I'm sure you will find one. It's good to see you have respect for women and want a life partner not just a women for sex.
2006-07-30 17:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not religious, but I do have heavy sociological / anthropological background. If you feel the need to "fear" your God, then it's because you feel guilty for something, or you want to feel victimized. Most folks don't fear their God. They love their God. God is like the ultimate leader. As Machiavelli said, a good leader must be both loved and feared. If he is just loved, then people will still do what they want against his wishes at times. If he is just feared, then they won't love their own lives, only doing what he wants out of fear of ramifications. If they love and fear him, then they will do what he wants out of love and respect first, and out of fear second. Let me try to use a different analogy for God... God, in most peoples' eyes, is like a good parent. A good parent uses 2 parts love and 1 part discipline to ensure people lead a good life. 1 part love is unconditional. God loves you unconditionally, because you are his creation. (Just as a parent loves their child unconditionally). 1 part love is for positive reinforcement. God shows you love to reward your good behavior. This is what most folks call "blessings", "miracles", etc. Parents do the same with them children; give them hugs when they succeed. 1 part discipline is used for negative reinforcement. God punishes people when they've been bad. Parents do the same to children. Now, most people will follow a Godly life simply because they respect and love God due to 1 part unconditional love, and 1 part positive reinforcement. If that doesn't work then they fear the 1 part discipline. However, what's "blessing" and "punishment" from God is subjective. Different religions, and even individuals, may see something as a blessing while others see it as a curse. Everyone can see whatever they want into something. When a mother hugs a child, it's pretty tangible that it's a hug. But, when a person finds $5 on the street is that a blessing? What if it just enables them to do something bad? I think the better way to look at God is that he gives people chances. The $5 is an opportunity. How the person chooses to use that opportunity dictates whether it's a "blessing" or "curse".
2016-03-27 07:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not an Aussies prob.. Its an international prob.. And your religion should teach you not to be judgmental..
Sometimes religious teachings do make sense, but you've got to see the percentage of people that live in the real world, as compared to the people that adheres to the mosques or churches.
So, I'm not saying its wrong for you to seek a virgin girl, but you've got to understand that your stand's a minority stand, so you've got to put judgement aside, patience at the top, and start seeking for that perfect girl in the very tiny circle left, and then be truly happy.
Don't worry dude, there are such people existing.. but I guess you've got to put that judgmental attitude aside because you'll end up pissing many off before even getting a chance to know them.
2006-07-30 04:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is highly over rated. To place such an emphasis on virginity shows a lack of respect for the person of a woman.
It is even more of an indication that you consider a woman some sort of property good that is somehow damaged by having sex before marriage.
2006-07-30 02:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extramarital sex, even if practiced in the name of love, is not loving at all, for either party. The Bible’s standard is clear-cut on this matter. “Let marriage be honorable among all, and the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge fornicators and adulterers.” (Hebrews 13:4) By observing this command, one avoids sexually transmitted diseases, marital strain, and the stress of a hidden love affair.
If you want to find a virgin girl in your country you have to find one who believes what the Bible really teaches and applies its teachings to her life. There are many in your country doing this. But, if you are not doing the same she will not want YOU. I know where you can find them, but I do not want to publish this on this site.
2006-07-30 06:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are in the year 2006 and woman can do what they want and who they want. Sex isn't some dirty thing. Sex is a natural and beautiful thing. And muslim girls don't marry who they want and fall inlove with. They marry who their dad sells them to for a cow. And muslim girls don't have sex because they don't want to. They don't have sex because they will get killed by their father. Dude is right. Get a life.
2006-07-30 02:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a strong believer. I'm very public about it.
2014-09-12 16:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase you are free to be your own person...thats why. I'm not Australian, but I don't believe in wiating till marriage for sex...STUPID! Virginity is not something that was that important to me. I believe in God, but I dont believe in organized religion. Oh...and maybe they dont want to marry you. ever thought of that? anyone who looks down on a girl for not being a virgin is pathetic and doesnt deserve respect...kind of like you.
2006-07-30 02:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. Its impossible or improbable more like with that attitude. Its hard enough pulling chicks without having a mantra checklist on your shoulder as well
2006-07-30 02:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "some guys look down on girls after they sleep with them", were you reffering to guys like you? If so this could answer your question.
2006-07-30 02:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋