I fall inlove with my sweetheart. He is from another country. Be both are in college. We will be graduating soon. The problem is from where he come from he hardly use english language unless from my country. So if i were to go to his country or he came to my country language is the problem. We could communicate just fine in english its just that our work is in different language. Hes Turkish.
Anyone out there who have a long distant releationship that is succesful who could share and some whom could help my promblem? Most appreciated
2006-07-30 01:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love transcends boundaries,religion,language,culture and all other barriers.As along both of you love each other truly nothing should stand between you.
Since both of you can communicate in English it shouldn't be a problem.When he comes to your country you help him out and when you go to his country he could help you out.You can survive in Turkey withe English shouldn't be a problem.
Think of my country (India) it has so many languages(14 recognised) and numerous dialects, people fall in love with folks from other languages,marry and live happily.
Wishing all the very best in your relationship, make sure you give way for each other and stay together forever
2006-07-30 02:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by table-tennis pro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a long distant relationship could lead to problems I'm not saying that they're impossible its just that long distance relationships are not for everybody. some people can make it work and other people cant. If your really in love with this guy and you cant live without him you should try to be with him. Think about all the possibilites and conseqences of having a long distance relationship. Then you'll know what to do.
2006-07-30 02:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distant relationships are difficult, you have so many insecurities. But its only what you make it, its better to have loved and lost if this happens than never to have felt love at all. You can learn his language by tapes from libraries or on line languages.My partner is over seas i hardly understand him when i call, but i stay positive. If it lasts it lasts if it doesnt wasn't meant to be. Good luck anyway
2006-07-30 02:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend are attempting a long distance relationship, and even though its hard, I think we can do it.
He lives in America and I live in Holland, but we are trying it, because we are not ready to give up yet.
If you are determined, then I think you can handle the long distance thing, just follow your heart.
Try it, wont it hurt more knowing that you could have tried it and you didnt? As long as you have trust, and you love him, then you can make this work. It will hurt, but after a while it will get better. Don't give up just because it gets hard.
And dont worry, I know exactly what you are going through.
Good luck xD
xxxjes
2006-07-30 02:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can spend a vacation in turkey.
like 2-4 weeks or even 2 months if u are able 2.
you will meet his friends, family, become friendly with his environement, see if u will like to live there.
next, invite him to ur place, see if he can cope with your environement for a couple of time, meet your friends and stuff.
then u can decide woteva ur decision may be, wereva u want 2 live or if u still wanna live with him either.
at your age, love must be lived and consumed
(at least is what i wud do...)
2006-07-30 02:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard, but it CAN work. Talking from experience. If there is love, commitment and TRUST, nothing will be too hard for the two of you. Just work out a plan for communicating regularly and go for it fully!
Good luck
2006-07-30 02:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by gina_munro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
English isn't your first language is it? Learn his first language if you really want to make the effort. Keep trying and don't give up.
2006-07-30 02:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u teach each other the language such that both of u feel easy
2006-07-30 02:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keeps you wanting more doesn't it chances are if you ever do get the more it will be a disappointment its a way of protecting your self from fear of commitment because inside you know it won't work my guess is you're not ready
2006-07-30 02:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God bless you. it may be difficult in the long run to give too many sacrifices
2006-07-30 02:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋