some people say if i ever catch my mate cheating i would break up with them but sometimes it's easier said than done. just like on the t.v show girlfriends when mya cheated on darnell but it wasn't really her fault because he came and kissed her. so he broke up with her all because of a kiss, which i thought was stupid but would you give your mate a second chance if that happened to you?
2006-07-30 01:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by jdukenumber1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd pull a Loretta Bobbitt on him and the girl who made a move on him would be in serious danger!
All kidding aside, if someone else kissed him against his will, if someone made a move on him and he didn't want it, I'd forgive, but at the back of my mind, I'll keep wondering if it could've gone further. It's a delicate situation. I am a thinker and I think about anything and everything. I tend to overanalyze so I think that in the end, it could have damaging repercussions on our relationship. That's me anyway.
2006-07-30 02:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by bonjovifan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really hard to say guess it all depends on the relationship because if it was about the guy I am with now I could maybe say I would try second chance but say I wasn't with him it was some one else then I would have to say no no second chance now the reason for the second chance with the guy I am with now we have alot invested into the relationship we have been together for 8yrs and have been living together for 7yrs and we share a 2yr old daughter so I would fight for this relationship I would try to give him a second chance it would be hard and I don't know if I could make it work after some thing like him cheating on me but I would try but now say it was my ex we were together for 2yrs and if he would have cheated on me during the time together the no I would not have given him a second chance because we never lived together I was in high school he was in college and we didn't share a child together and for those reasons no no 2nd chances for him or some one like that there isn't much invested in that kind of realationship so I would take the time and efford in making things work I would move on but after 8yrs and a 2yr old daughter then yes I would TRY a 2nd chance key word is TRY trust is very hard thing to get back and getting over that is way hard and I don't know if it is some thing I ever could get over and if it is not then our relationship would be over but at least I gave it all I could to try to make things work.
2006-07-30 02:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jordan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a husband that cheated on me and basically you lose trust in your husband and wander why you stay in the marriage.. a marriage is suppose to be for those two people and when he brings someone else into the marriage you do not feel you have anything worth working on.. and you lack trust in him, his loyalty to you..you wander if he loves you.. but when a girl walks up and kisses him and he does not respond back i think that would be under special circumstances...or he came and kissed her it would be under special circumstances...unless the man just did not want to continue the relationship and just used this for a reason..
2006-07-30 02:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, technically, kissing isn't cheating. I would probably not trust my girl if she kissed another guy and our relationship would most likely begin to crumble, but I would definitely break up with her ON THE SPOT if I ever found out she cheated on me with proof or caught her cheating.
2006-07-30 01:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on her if she saw u kissing another gal would she give u another chance... do u miss out on other perfect gals just cause u dont wanna cheat on ur current gal?? but still she does go around cheating on u?
would she give u another chance that where the ans is
2006-07-30 02:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the mate and the severity of the cheating luv.
2006-07-30 01:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by catstu9526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave, and never look back.
If things are going bad in the relationship,
I let it be known before i or he cheats,
We give each other the respect to brake it off FIRST~ !
I wouldn't do it to the man, i don't want it done to me ~ !
That simple, in my eyes !
~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-30 02:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did give my mate a second chance and we have been happy ever since!!!!
2006-07-30 02:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone deserves a second chance....and everyone should be given a chance to explain...coz you might end up blaming yourself in the future if you didn't listen to his explanations especially if it's an honest, valid reason....and you are the only one who can decide if his reasons are acceptable or not...
2006-07-30 02:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by sleixy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man a just deal with it. Ask for 3 some.
2006-07-30 01:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋