2006-07-30 01:52:51 · 20 answers · asked by lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just do it.if you dont.you'll life will pass you by. and you will look back and feel alot worse than i think you already do. there is a poem that says i will be happy when/// and it states things like,the kids are out off the house,or my mate does this for me. i dont remember the whole thing.however i got the point.dont wait to be happy,be happy now,not later.not when----. http://www.TheDashMovie.com I just found this and if you are deep, you'll understand what it means!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-30 02:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't feel happiness just by having a wife an 2 children then you have serious problems. Think positive as negativity only drags you down. If you can't be happy with your wife well ok but you should always feel happiness with your children as their your own flesh and blood. Spend quality family time together whether it be a picnic, day at beach, a drive or holiday.You dont need the finest things in life to be happy, you make you own happiness from within. You should be happy as your alive some ppl would give anything to have what youve got a family.
2006-07-30 08:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound critical but if you are unhappy with your wife and two kids you should find ways to regain the happiness that you all had before the kids arrived!!!! You know these days its so easy for people to want to divorce their wife or husbands or maybe even cheat on them!!! What happen to the vows till death do us part? Is no one willing to go through the bad times and the worse times anymore? I am married been with my hubby 20 years had two kids when we met and later went on to have three for him!!!! Nobody said that marriage would be easy but its meant to try and do all you can before you just throw years and years down the drain .Often we look at finding someone new and thinking that this will make us happy !! caution what you think is a new beginning can cause you more pain and agony than you had when you were with your wife!!!! i don't know your situation but every good accomplishment takes hard work!!!! Good Luck!
2006-07-30 09:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask: why am I not ahppy, is it because I feel like I'm missing out on something, do I want another woman, do I miss the single life, do I hate all this responsibility? I'm 22, I am just now separated after a 4 year marriage from hell. there was love, but we jsut couldn't make it work. Outside all the pain and all from the marriage, I also had some of those resentments. I wanted the singles life, I wanted to not have the responsibility of my daughter. I love my daughter, and I love my ex, but there were other pieces missing. Sometimes it just can't work. I love my daughter, wouldn't give her up for anything in the world. but there were times when I wished that I never had her. I resented, even hated my husband for everything he did to me, and all the pain he caused me. Now tings are getting better. Maybe a separation is necessary. But happiness can be found. Try going to counseling.
2006-07-30 09:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to think everything happens for a reason. So now matter how bad you think things are right now, it's always going to mean something later. Plus things could always be worse.
Try this. Get a note book. At the end of each day write one positive thing about yourself. And don't make it superficial. For example, last night I would have wrote "today I surprised my boyfriend with a going-away party. He was smiling and happy because he got to say good-bye to some really good friends. Seeing him smile makes me smile".
I know this may sound dumb, but it does work. Once you start being happy with yourself you will be able to be happy in life. Nobody can make you be happy, you are in control of your own destiny.
And one last thought....the alternative to your life is not having a life at all. Be blessed each day you are allowed to live it.
Best wishes to you.
PS. I just read grahamma's response...I really hope she's wrong about you. I'd hate to think I just spent the last five minutes trying to help someone who is only in it for the attention. I read your previous questions also...some of the best pick answers makes me feel she is right about you. But everything happens for a reason, right. I hope someone gets some good out of you questions if they really are bogus.
2006-07-30 09:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wife and kids should be your happiness. Family is what makes life worth living.
2006-07-30 14:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u need to write more,some more details to know what is keeping you so unhappy even after happy such a beautiful family with a wife and 2 kids?
we all go thru lows n highs in life and they make you more stronger,u just cant lose hopes,thats what life is all about!!
2006-07-30 09:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you not be happy with a wife and kids? Is you relationship with your wife going okay?
2006-07-30 10:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me 20 years ago. If you are unhappy with the whole situation, you must leave. If you love your kids, make the best of it until they are older. No kid wants to be without a parent. When you decide to be a parent, that is your first priority.
I am still unhappy and now stuck for finacial reasons, don't let yourself get that far.
2006-07-30 08:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by catstu9526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read ALL of your previous questions and I've come to this realization:
You are NOT for real. Your issues are Not real. Your problems are NOT real. And the situations that you've come up with are NOT real. Little "things" change in your questions. You really need to work on your continuity. It'll make your warped questions more believable.
There are so many people out in the world with REAL problems and family issues, why would you want to waste your time and ours by fabricating these little stories?
I'm not sympathetic to story-tellers.
2006-07-30 09:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋