ok..shes 13....she told her friend that she has no feelings for me at all...but she also said she dont want me to know.......but she told me that she doesnt trust that same friend, that she thinks she has a big mouth...what shud i beilieve.......i mean..i would do anything for this girl.....i mean it seems like she has atleast some feelings for me...so what should i do...i mean..if there is anything i can do..please tell me how and what..cuz i would do anything in the world for this girl..i mean..call me crazy..but shes so perfect...i mean everything about her is perfect.......im scared to tell her how i feel..cuz i dont want her to get scared please help
2006-07-30 01:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to the girl directly and ask her. Dont believe third person.
2006-07-30 01:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is tough, i can tell you that much. I have been in this situation many times, and it's really confusing.
This girl could be lying or she could not be. You never know what the story might be from her friend, and the only way to solve this is to ask HER directly (the girl you like). What you need to do is confront her youself. Pick a time when no one is around, and she is on her own. Then calmly and carefully tell her that you fancy her and that you want to know if you have any chance at all with her. Do not go overboard and tell her exactly how much you love her, but keep it shortened. I made the mistake of doing that, and I scared the guy I liked so he backed off.
If she admits that you do have a chance, then you can ask her out, or for a drink or a date, or whatever. If she says you have no chance, then my advice would be to get up and move on. Do not press the matter further, as it will only add more tension.
I went though the exact same thing, and although it didnt end pretty for me, I was pleased that I had the guts to confront the guy, because otherwise I would probably still be wondering whether or not I had a chance, or whether he was lying about liking me or not. I managed to move on and get on with my life, but think about it this way: Will you ever really know unless you try?
Ive got my fingers crossed for you, and good luck Xx
2006-07-30 08:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by JOANNABANANA ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING in love is scary. thE BEST would be to ask her directly. ANd express your feelings to her. No matter what happens at least you don't get in deppresion. This is what happens when you keep sth in yourself and don't show it. This is love Darling. You should have to much courage.as much as you had when you decided to fell in love.
2006-07-30 08:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by CRYBABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm mm....tranquilize her, rape her for several hours, (do not make any videos or photos - possible proofs)and than go find another girls that u can have a relation with. cheers mate!
2006-07-30 09:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-07-30 08:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋