If a man is attracted to you, but you meet only as friends - how long until he gives up and do you think it is teasing for a man who knows he cannot be with you, to continue seeing you as a friend.
2006-07-30 01:33:24 · 16 answers · asked by selfish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess that depends on the circumstances. When you met as friends, was it made clear that that is what you would only be? If the man can't live with that, then he shouldn't remain friends.
2006-07-30 01:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by momathomewith2boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited 4 years for my friend to eventually be my girlfriend. The reason we didn't get together earlier is because she see can't how our relationship would change by becoming more than friends. I would've waited longer, but she got together with another guy so we stayed friends for a year when she broke up with the other guy and we got together.
Some of my female friends has expressed that they're interested in me even though they know I'm in a relationship. We are still friends even now. I have no intention of teasing them and I've always assumed we're cool with each other but now you make me wonder.
I should probably note that my girlfriend and I are childhood friends, so we are friends first above all.
2006-07-30 01:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by loki_niflheim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually if u start making a good friendship, the sooner he will become ur target of complains regarding other men in your life the faster u will lose him. best friends and lovers are completely different things. a man is not attracted to you for being your best friend. he's not a pet. he basically wants to be happy, to share love and finally sex. maybe not finally :)
as a time frame ... 3 months i guess is too long. if he stays more than 3 months something is wrong with him. you will lose him anyway as friend when he will be in love with another girl.
2006-07-30 01:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man would tell you what he wants, for example i wouldn't wait a second to tell a girl she is sexy and she turn's me on. But i am 19 and i am not shy if the man is shy
then the women have to do all the taliking
2006-07-30 01:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Gabriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will continue seeing a woman as a friend indefinitely but I will look upon her as a friend, and not a potential lover. If I see her as a potential lover then I think a couple of rejected passes will make me stop considering her as a potential lover.
2006-07-30 01:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in keeping with possibility 3-4 dates. "waiting" is clever while you're 18, no longer while you're on your 30+ variety. If the female isn't involved in intercourse too, i woudlnt' be all that involved in her long term the two. you're saying "undergo in recommendations intercourse isn't the main mandatory situation while you're searching for a relationship" as though it have been a fact, yet its extra basically your feeling on it. If intercourse is significant to somebody whether male or lady then they'd't have a good relationship with undesirable intercourse.
2016-11-03 07:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well am hoping as soon as he starting feeling differently towards me.if you are feeling this way towards a friend why don't you ask them if she would like to take the friendship in another direction or level and see what her answer would be you never know she might be feeling that way towards you too.
2006-07-30 01:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction should be permitted when the pucket is able to pay bills. That said, it depends .
2006-07-30 01:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not long. If he sees another girl he is interested in, he will then focus on her. It is all about instinct; he is looking for someone, and if he does not see hope in one, he will find another.
(You watch too many movies)
2006-07-30 01:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mark D. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real man will wait along time but not for ever so make your gound rules plan so he knows what the plan is
2006-07-30 01:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by David W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋